The Slumflower Hour

Are you easily swindled by a man's enthusiastic advances? Are you in a hurry to believe what a man says if it means you can have a relationship to claim? Do you need to mentally fortify yourself with the strength to dodge lovebombing?

If any of the above questions resonate, this one's for you!

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Are you emotionally stuck in your attachment to him? Does it feel like you are cutting off a limb by cutting him off? Do you need to be talked off the ledge of over-investment in this man? Gather round the fireplace, let's talk... In this episode, The Slumflower runs through a comprehensive thought stream on how to emotionally detach from men without losing your determination in the process - along with ways to cheat to your benefit (if you really have to!)

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In this fun storytime, join The Slumflower as she spills the details of her encounter with a rather generous submissive man... ;)

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Do you find yourself panicking on first dates? Does your overthinking breed overcompensation? Are you scared of awkward silences?

If you resonate with any of the above questions, this episode is definitely for you!

Dating should be fun and in this short and sweet episode, join The Slumflower as she talks you through fun ways to get through dating without getting yourself too involved. ;)

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Are you still on your digital quest for love? Is the dating app fatigue kicking in? Have you started checking the dating apps more than you check Instagram? It might be time for a breather...

In this episode, Chidera speaks on why she thinks you should quit dating apps once and for all!

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In the highly anticipated first episode of SEASON 2, The Slumflower joins forces with the unstoppable comedian: Katherine Ryan!

Is having a man's children the ultimate betrayal? Should women dominate their husbands? Are breadwinner wives doomed?

It all goes down in this hilarious, truthful and vulnerable episode...

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This is the FINAL episode of The Slumflower Hour podcast's first ever season and of course, we had to wrap this up in style!

It is with great honour to introduce to you, MISTRESS MARLEY: the professional dominatrix and sex educator, who took social media by storm with a viral video of her taking a leashed, kneeling, elderly, white male sub to her homecoming.

Since the viral moment was documented in The New York Times, Mistress Marley has gone on to expand further into her dominance as a profession, taking on celebrity male clients and making six figures a year, centering reparations in her work and using her platform to teach other women how to become dominatrixes - all whilst throwing kink parties and fostering community for Black people in kink!

In this conversation, join Chidera and Mistress Marley as they both muse on dating as dominatrixes, learning how to tell men what to do, common misconceptions about dominating men and the various ways being a dominatrix can provide useful transferrable skills for everyday life.

You can find Mistress Marley at:

@hausofmarley on Instagram

@eyesxonfire on Twitter

Mistress Marley's domination courses: https://www.patreon.com/sexcademy

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Are relationships your comfort zone? Are you scared of being alone? Have you spent more time being in relationships, than being single?

You may really benefit from this episode if you resonate with any of the above questions!

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses living a life you aren’t in a hurry to escape from, developing the confidence to walk away from men and choosing your life, not settling for it.

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Do you fear that you 'owe' men something in return for their kindness? Are you self-deprecating and unable to see yourself as worthy of receiving? Do you feel bad when men go out of their way for you?

If you answered 'yes' to any of these questions, this episode is definitely for YOU!

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As complex and unique as we all are, there are still traits we share in common - depending on what period of the year we were born in!

Join The Slumflower as she discusses the weaknesses and strengths of your zodiac sign - and even if you don't resonate with astrology, you may learn a fun fact or two!

The 'Men of The zodiac' episode was hilarious so after many requests - both on the Patreon and in Instagram DM's, we now have an episode (lovingly) dragging the women of all 12 zodiac signs.

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