June 13, 2023

Therapeutic Separation; Part 3; Separation agreement questions

30 minutes

This is part three of a four-part series on therapeutic separations. In this episode, Amie and Alana break down the pieces of a therapeutic agreement for separation. This agreement outlines the terms and conditions agreed upon by the couple as they undergo the separation process. It serves as a framework to establish clear boundaries, expectations, and goals.

Listen to learn the 12 critical questions outlined in the agreement, including:

What are the goals for the separation?

What are the expectations for visiting each other’s living spaces?

Who will be taking the children and when?

When will you plan to check in with each other?

What are the specific plans for contacting each other?

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