Therapy Brothers

Caller Jaime's Question: "How do we rebuild trust without me checking his phone or using a spy app to watch his activity? I feel like I need proof he's not looking at porn to gain trust back...."

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// Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" //

// Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert" //

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0:00 - Intro

1:20 - Hair Chat

4:15 - Meet Jamie

5:30 - Jamie's Trauma

8:45 - Partner's Behavior

12:00 - Addressing Addiction

15:30 - Partner's Willingness

18:00 - Honest Conversations

20:45 - Proactive Therapy

23:15 - Self-Worth Patterns

26:30 - Validation & Support

29:00 - Recognizing Patterns

32:15 - Relationship with God

36:00 - Setting Boundaries

40:30 - Empowering Choices

43:15 - Personal Story

46:30 - Emotional Growth

Tune in as Brannon and Tyler take you on a captivating journey to delve into the mysteries of the drama triangle and explore practical tips to break free from its grasp. In this thought-provoking podcast, they offer insightful discussions about attachment styles, the profound impact of early experiences on adult connections, and actionable strategies to avoid toxic patterns in relationships. Through engaging real-life examples and inspiring takeaways, you'll have the opportunity to foster self-discovery, enhance emotional intelligence, and ultimately create genuine, fulfilling relationships in your life. Don't miss this adventure of personal growth that will empower you with the skills to revolutionize your connections!

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// Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" //

// Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert" //

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0:00 - Intro

0:25 - Rising Sun Conference Announcement

2:15 - Drama Basics

4:20 - Attachment Theory

6:00 - Drama Triangle Overview

8:00 - Victim Role

10:30 - Victims in Relationships

13:00 - Rescuer/Caretaker Role

15:20 - Caretaker Motivation

18:00 - Caretaker Examples

20:15 - Rescuer-Victim Dynamics

22:30 - Drama and Relationship Betrayal

24:45 - Short-term vs. Long-term Role Effects

27:00 - Acknowledging Personal Victim Stories

29:00 - Brandon's Realization

31:30 - Tyler's Drama-Breaking Strategies

34:00 - Closing Remarks

Caller Jake's Question: "How do I stop seeking lust hits in public without overthinking it and sending myself into anxiety and depression?..."

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// Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" //

// Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert" //

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// EVENTS //

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0:00 - Intro

1:23 - Summer Update

2:15 - Wind Rivers Trip

4:20 - Chainsaw Mishap

7:10 - Meet Jake

9:00 - Jake's Struggles

13:45 - 2017 Discovery

16:30 - September Incident

21:10 - Jake's Family Background

27:30 - Challenging Beliefs

31:40 - Emotional Patterns

34:55 - Safety and Honesty

39:20 - Miami Example

42:45 - Facebook Dilemma

48:00 - Bank Scenario

51:20 - Wrapping Up

Caller Janelle's Question: "How can I get past the fear of letting my wall down with my spouse after bring betrayed?..."

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// Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" //

// Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert" //

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// EVENTS //

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0:00 - Intro

1:10 - Catching up

3:40 - Healing Recap

7:15 - Two Years Post D-Day

11:30 - "Victim" and "Perpetrator"

15:00 - Husband's Progress

20:00 - Dilemma of Accepting Help

24:40 - Fear of Moving Forward

28:15 - Navigating Recovery

32:20 - Struggle with Purpose

36:45 - Seeking Validation

40:30 - Embracing the Healing Process

45:00 - Closing Thoughts

Join Brannon as he opens up about his unique path through recovery and sexuality, shaped by a religious upbringing. From his late-blooming innocence to navigating the complexities of righteousness, witness his inspiring journey of faith and understanding. 

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// Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" //

// Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert" //

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// EVENTS //

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0:00 - Intro

1:10 - Religious Upbringing

6:45 - Naivety and Pre-Mission

11:30 - Missionary Experience

15:20 - Marriage & Limited Knowledge

20:45 - Encounter with Recovery Program

26:15 - Fear-Based Approach & Codependency

31:40 - Shift in Beliefs & Podcasting

36:55 - Exploring Sexuality & Challenging Beliefs

42:30 - Conclusion & Call to Action

Caller Heidi's Question: "I wish I had a single specific question. I suppose I’m needing some guidance on how to navigate this whole experience. This is probably wayyy too much information but I’m going for it Some background, my husband and I have been married for 5 years, together for 9. I was previously married and have 3 children from that marriage..."

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// Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" //

// Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert" //

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// EVENTS //

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00:00 - Introduction

04:56 - Heidi's Trust Issues

08:32 - Wesley's Struggles

14:18 - Relationship Problems

17:42 - Previous Counseling Attempts

20:44 - Importance of Individual Work

27:40 - Disclosure Process

31:02 - Real Work Begins

34:18 - Wesley's Approach to Change

38:45 - Facing Triggers and Demons

43:25 - Understanding Self-Worth

45:55 - Journey of Self-Discovery

49:30 - Patience in Healing

55:20 - Closing Remarks and Hope

Caller Joel's Question: "My marriage has reached a critical moment, when a recent relapse has led to a separation. I want to do something to accelerate my recovery, and have been considering various experiential retreats, intensive therapeutic treatment programs, etc., to add to my weekly groups and individual therapy. What advice can you give me to help determine what option may be best for me?"

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// Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" //

// Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert" //

// COURSES //

// EVENTS //

// Reclaim Your Heart //

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Caller Joel's Question: "My marriage has reached a critical moment, when a recent relapse has led to a separation. I want to do something to accelerate my recovery, and have been considering various experiential retreats, intensive therapeutic treatment programs, etc., to add to my weekly groups and individual therapy. What advice can you give me to help determine what option may be best for me?"

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We would love to answer any questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, healing, and anything you can think of. Click the link below to submit your question (and if you're open to being a guest on the podcast, you can schedule your call time as well)! We're also curious to know if there are any topics you'd like to hear us discuss on the podcast.

https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/

Send mail to: Therapy Brothers, 40 W Cache Valley Blvd Ste 3c, Logan, UT 84341

// Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert" //

Website: https://www.brannonpatrick.com

Therapy Practice: https://therapyutah.org/

Instagram: https://instagram.com/brannon_patrick

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ExpertBrannon

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/bpatricklcsw

// Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" //

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// OUR COURSES //

Boundary Bootcamp: https://www.brannonpatrick.com/Boundarybootcamp

Pornography Addiction Recovery Kickstart: https://lovestrong.com/courses/overcome-pornography-addiction/

// OUR EVENTS //

Radiant Dawn | Women's Retreat: https://radiantdawnconference.com/

Rising Son | Men's Retreat: https://risingson.org

Vibrant Love | Couple's Retreat: https://vibrantlove.org

The Brothers Discuss: The subtle ways that we are dishonest and why we are dishonest. They focus on relationships and communication. Is this an honest statement? "As long as I'm honest about my relapse...I'm an honest person." That might be further from the truth in ways that will surprise you. The Therapy Brothers break it down.

// SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION //

We would love to answer any questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, healing, and anything you can think of. Click the link below to submit your question (and if you're open to being a guest on the podcast, you can schedule your call time as well)! We're also curious to know if there are any topics you'd like to hear us discuss on the podcast.

https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/

Send mail to: Therapy Brothers, 40 W Cache Valley Blvd Ste 3c, Logan, UT 84341

// Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert" //

Website: https://www.brannonpatrick.com

Therapy Practice: https://therapyutah.org/

Instagram: https://instagram.com/brannon_patrick

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ExpertBrannon

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/bpatricklcsw

// Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" //

15-Minute Free Consultation Call: https://lovestrong.com/consultation-call

Therapy Practice: https://lovestrong.com

Instagram: https://instagram.com/the.wandering.therapist

Facebook: https://facebook.com/love.strong.org

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXaR4084r-Z_251xVdoyMFQ

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Newsletter: https://www.therapybros.com/subscribe

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Theme Music By: Max Wardle Music

Books & Audiobooks We Recommend (We earn a small percentage from your purchase with any of the books links on this page): https://lovestrong.com/most-impactful-books/

// OUR COURSES //

Boundary Bootcamp: https://www.brannonpatrick.com/Boundarybootcamp

Pornography Addiction Recovery Kickstart: https://lovestrong.com/courses/overcome-pornography-addiction/

// OUR EVENTS //

Radiant Dawn | Women's Retreat: https://radiantdawnconference.com/

Rising Son | Men's Retreat: https://risingson.org

Vibrant Love | Couple's Retreat: https://vibrantlove.org

The Brothers Discuss: The subtle ways that we are dishonest and why we are dishonest. They focus on relationships and communication. Is this an honest statement? "As long as I'm honest about my relapse...I'm an honest person." That might be further from the truth in ways that will surprise you. The Therapy Brothers break it down.

// SUBMIT A QUESTION + CALL IN //

We'd love to answer questions you have about addiction, trauma, recovery, relationships, and healing. Ask Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.therapybros.com/call-in-and-ask-a-question/⁠⁠⁠⁠

// Tyler Patrick LMFT | "The Wandering Therapist" //

// Brannon Patrick LCSW | "The Expert" //

// COURSES //

// EVENTS //

// Reclaim Your Heart //

Join our new community for quality exclusive content, incredible courses, and real connection: ⁠⁠https://join.reclaimyourheart.com/⁠