The Thais Gibson Podcast

THESE 3 Dismissive Avoidant Expectations Sabotage Their Relationships!


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In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and Mike dive deep into the common expectations that dismissive avoidants bring into their relationships and how these can sabotage connections. They explore three major unhealthy expectations that dismissive avoidants often hold: wanting unconditional acceptance of flaws, avoiding criticism, and desiring excessive alone time without negotiation.

Through personal stories and insights, Thais and Mike share strategies on how to reframe these expectations and foster healthier compromises for secure, balanced relationships. This episode is packed with actionable advice for both dismissive avoidants and their partners on building deeper, more meaningful connections.


Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Intro

00:00:49 - Welcome back to the podcast

00:01:06 - Unhealthy expectations for dismissive avoidants

00:02:35 - Mike and Thais share their journey from attachment styles

00:03:39 - Dismissive Avoidant's unconscious expectations

00:06:29 - Comfort-seeking vs. growth

00:10:19 - Personalizing criticism and acceptance

00:14:18 - 7-Day Free Trial

00:17:13 - Learning to communicate and compromise in relationships

00:27:12 - Criticism vs. Feedback

00:31:46 - HelloFresh Promo

00:35:00 - Positive friction in relationships and workplaces

00:42:22 - Honoring alone time as a dismissive avoidant

00:50:00 - Healthy compromises in relationships

00:53:53 - Fall IAT Promo

00:53:00 - Outro


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