The Thais Gibson Podcast

THIS Is What A Fearful Avoidant THINKS They Need to Be Happy


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In this episode, join Thais and co-host Mike as they dive deep into attachment styles, particularly focusing on the dynamics and hidden desires of the Fearful Avoidant (FA) attachment style.


Together, they unpack how core attachment wounds influence the FA’s need for control, their oscillation between connection and independence, and the challenges they face in effectively communicating needs.


Whether you’re an FA, in a relationship with one, or simply interested in attachment styles, this episode offers valuable insights, practical advice, and a deeper understanding of attachment-driven relationship dynamics. Tune in for relatable experiences, expert advice, and strategies to foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships.


Timestamps

00:00 - Intro

01:53 - What FAs Want in Relationships: Knowing What They Want

15:22 - All or Nothing Thinking

16:52 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass

18:23 - Help Carrying the Load

24:17 - Healing Can Increase Energy

28:30 - Why FAs Don't Burn Out as Much

29:55 - Some Coping Mechanisms Can Drain Your Energy

31:35 - Hello Fresh

33:02 - Respecting Need for Space

41:36 - Someone Who Isn't Controlling

43:55 - Integrated Attachment Theory Certification

45:05 - Letting Go of Control

55:00 - Hot & Cold Emotions

1:02:44 - How Many of Us Are FA?

1:06:23 - Mike’s Perception of FA Traits as a Former DA

1:10:23 - Conclusion


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