During this episode with therapist and coach Eva A. Mendes she shares some of the important information neurodiverse couples shared with her for her newest book titled: “Armchair Conversations on Love  and Autism: Secrets of Happy Neurodiverse Couples”.

Some of the important things  that top performing neurodiverse couples do:

1. Accept the diagnosis and talk openly about each partner’s neurotypes.  Work together to understand the root cause of their challenges as a couple.
2. Have a beginners mindset as an individual and a couple.
3. Trust each other and be able to be influenced by their partner.

Some of the other topics discussed include:

• The challenge with taking things personally and not understanding your partner’s love.
• Understanding different ways of communication with your partner and others.
• The importance of building on your strengths.
• Understanding what you each may need to do differently to connect.
• Staying humble and curious with your partner.
• Going “beyond the midline”for both partners.
• The importance of working with a professional who has experience working with ND couples.
• Both partners working on the relationship to the best of their ability.
• Addressing different issues that come up over the lifespan. 
• Focusing on “solvable” not “perpetual” problems.
• Working on empathy for each other.
• Understanding your partner in the greater context of their life.
• Acknowledging that you can’t get everything from one person.  It takes a village!
• Sometimes couples don’t have enough bandwidth for each other anymore.
• We are all here to grow and have an opportunity to learn more about ourselves and our partners.

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