Time to Lean

By Laura Danger and Crystal Britt

On the Time to Lean podcast with Laura Danger and Crystal Britt, we dig into the often-overlooked realities of domestic labor, care work, and household inequity. Through sharp cultural cri

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November 26, 2025 when does modeling better balance become capitalizing on the issue of inequity?
In this episode, we explore the line between sharing personal growth and capitalizing on the widespread normalization of inequity. When does modeling a more equitable division of labor go from influencing a cultural shift to patting yourself on the back?

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No More Mediocre by Laura Danger is in stores on January 6, 2026! Enter here for a chance to win an early copy!
Don’t miss Crystal’s Autism Self-Diagnosis Group, starting Dec 1st! More info here!

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1h 3min
October 08, 2025 what if men were tricked into going to therapy?
In this episode, Crystal and Laura discuss an IG reel sent to us from a listener. Do men need to be tricked into going to therapy? What are some things that keep them from going? How do you even go about picking a therapist that’s right for you?
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49min
September 24, 2025 if i have to ask you to invite me, is it REALLY an invitation?
In this episode, Laura and Crystal chat about a clip from the movie Knocked Up where Leslie Mann confronts Paul Rudd about his dishonesty around how he's been using his time. We cover invisible labor, insidious inequity, subtle betrayals and so much more.

Here's the link to the original video!

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1h 1min
September 10, 2025 i asked for two, but he got me one—am i supposed to be okay with less... everyday... for the rest of my life?
In this episode, we discuss a viral thread where a woman describes a metaphor for her entire relationship: a situation where she asked for more and was expected to be satisfied with less. We talk: self-sacrifice, relationship dynamics, small moments that really reflect big issues.

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47min
August 13, 2025 is it funny to have to be begged to do the dishes?
In this episode, Crystal and Laura talk about a viral video that makes light of the dynamic of "nagging". Join us as we consider not just what happens when you "ask a man to do the dishes", but what the jokes of the #couplescomedy genre actually teach us to laugh off.

Mentioned:
Revolution at Point Zero
The original video
Paris Paloma - Labour

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52min
August 06, 2025was 'marriage story' cis-het propaganda?
In this episode, Laura and Crystal discuss the 2019 Netflix film, ‘Marriage Story,’ which starred Adam Driver and Scarlett Johansson. A popular clip is circulating on social media again and made us wonder: with all the passing of responsibility and finger-pointing and tantruming—was it all just cis-het propaganda??
Mentioned in this Episode:
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Laura’s Substack Article from Last Episode
Scarlett Longstreet's Instagram Post: “Five Things I Wish I Knew Before Getting Divorced”

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35min
July 30, 2025 would you leave someone on read for being too available?
This week, we’re digging into a few clips from @leftonread_show that had us feeling things! We talk about what it means to be “cool" and whether or not the host's advice to play hard to get is ACTUALLY good advice. A lighthearted one today. <3

Let’s get into it.

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35min
July 23, 2025 can an unfinished painting cause you to question everything?
This is a weird one. Crystal has been slammed and Laura couldn't get a painting out of her head, so she decided to write(and read) about it. In this episode, Laura reads something she wrote about an unfinished painting of a mother.

PLEASE PARDON LAURA'S FRENCH. :)

Check out the painting here!
Madame de Pastoret and Her Son, 1791–92
Artist: Jacques-Louis David (French, 1748–1825)

Here's her husband.

Here's her son.

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July 16, 2025 is it fair to feel upset if i ask for help and your response isn't eager?
In this episode, we talk about how vulnerable it can feel to name a need, the weight of perceived pushback, and how quickly it can spiral. We dig into what we call the nag paradox—that toxic loop of asking, resisting, escalating, and shutting down—and how it traps so many of us in a cycle of sacrifice, resentment, and disconnection.

Mentioned:
Wages For Housework by Emily Callaci

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1h 2min
July 10, 2025 what happens if they ask how they can help, then don't like my answer?
A listener sent us a video that hit a nerve: a husband asks his overwhelmed wife how he can help, then resists the very thing she asks for. In this episode, we unpack what’s really going on in moments like these. We talk about the emotional weight of asking for help, the nuances of saying no, and what it costs when a partner responds with resistance(even subtly). Emotional labor, the mental load, relationship dynamics, viral couples videos... it's all here!

Mentioned in this episode:
Rage Becomes Her
Wages For Housework
No More Mediocre
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54min

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How many episodes does Time to Lean have?

The podcast currently has 130 episodes available.

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