In today’s episode, we cover small talk and smart talk with AJ, Johnny, and Michael.

If you want to make meaningful connections with people, you have to transition from small talk to smart talk, but what is smart talk, why is vulnerability key, and how do you know what questions to ask?

What to Listen For

If you want to make meaningful connections with people, you have to transition from small talk to smart talk. What is the difference between small and smart talk? When we think of small talk, most often it's just a way for us to pass time or fill an awkward silence. Smart talk is about asking the right questions and listening closely to what they have to say. This will help you understand their needs on a deeper level, build stronger relationships with them, and form better connections than if all you did was small talk. But without vulnerability in your interactions, there’s little chance of connecting with someone new or deepening an existing relationship.

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Resources from this Episode

The Art of Charm Small Talk Cheat Sheet

Eavesdropping on Happiness: Well-being is Related to Having Less Small Talk and More Substantive Conversations

The Art of Charm Immersive Bootcamp

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