The Art of Charm

Transform Low-Value Behaviors into High-Value Habits | Toolbox

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In today’s episode, we help you identify and avoid low value behaviors with AJ and Johnny.


In this episode of The Art of Charm, AJ and Johnny dive deep into the psychology of value and behavior. Have you ever wondered if your actions unknowingly sabotage your social interactions? What behaviors might be holding you back from forming meaningful connections? AJ and Johnny explore how to identify and eliminate low value behaviors that keep you from connecting with others. Discover the three critical elements of value—attention, approval, and acceptance—and learn how to nurture high value behaviors that attract positive relationships. What does the science say about the benefits of being a high value individual? How can you balance being generous without being taken advantage of?


What to Listen For
  • Introduction – 0:00
  • Why is understanding value important in forming meaningful connections?
  • What will you learn about identifying and eliminating low value behaviors?


    • What are low value behaviors you need to avoid? – 02:08
    • What are supplicative behaviors, and how do they manifest in social interactions?
    • How does the victim mentality negatively impact your value?
    • Why is it important to avoid combative behaviors, and how can they harm your relationships?


      • The dangers of social media most people ignore – 14:06
      • How does social media manipulate our need for attention, approval, and acceptance?
      • What are the dangers of seeking validation through social media?


        • Most people fail to escape this mindset that cripples them – 24:48
        • Why is a competitive mindset still considered low value?
        • How does the scarcity mindset fuel unhealthy competition?
        • What are the pitfalls of constantly comparing yourself to others?

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