The Angry Therapist Podcast

Two Therapists in Bed Talk: Can Men Say No to Casual Sex? (And Other Big Questions We Avoid)


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From sex myths to second chances, safe choices to stuck seasons - John and Vanessa answer real listener questions from bed. You’ll hear why gendered scripts about sex don’t serve us, what really matters before getting back with an ex, how to choose the “risky” path without regret, and why feeling unmotivated can be a necessary pause - not a personal failure.

What you’ll learn

  • Can men say no to casual sex? (and why the answer matters)
  • Exes & ego: new tracks vs. old dynamics
  • Ditch “right vs. wrong” decisions; choose what’s honest now
  • Motivation is overrated; integration time builds strength
  • Links & mentions

    Vanessa’s book: The Motherhood Myth HERE

    Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Follow John on Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Find out more about John⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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