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Imagine if everything blocking you from becoming who you really are started with the questions you ask yourself. What if you are not broken, you are just buried? In this powerful Think Unbroken Podcast episode, Michael Unbroken sits down with Kristen Crabtree to talk about moving from trauma and survival mode into emotional sobriety, truth, and self‑reclamation.
Kristen shares her raw journey from childhood sexual assault and a 22‑year psychologically abusive marriage into freedom, healing, and designing a new identity built on authenticity instead of adaptation. She breaks down her unique framework of the Archaeologist, the Artifact, and the Architect – a process of excavating your truth, sorting what is real from the masks you wear, and then consciously building a life that aligns with who you actually are.
You will learn how trauma, prolonged stress, and narcissistic abuse shape your identity, create survival‑mode behaviors, and turn your nervous system into an addict for stress chemicals like cortisol, adrenaline, and the trauma‑bond mix of oxytocin and dopamine. Michael and Kristen unpack why you keep repeating the same toxic patterns, why leaving does not instantly “fix” you, and why becoming emotionally sober is harder than quitting alcohol.
Kristen also shares how discovering Dr. Joe Dispenza’s work, finding a book she wrote in 1999, and revisiting her own exercises helped her build a practical “jig” – a decision‑making tool based on your deepest values, passions, and truths. When you know your truth, she explains, decisions become clear, motivation flows naturally, and you no longer need to white‑knuckle discipline or live for external validation.
Michael brings his own story of growing up in severe abuse, having an ACE score of 10, being 350 pounds, chain‑smoking, and stuck in chaos, to show how identity theft is the hidden cost of trauma – and how reclaiming your identity is more important than “fixing” yourself. Together they explore why tools like meditation, therapy, coaching, journaling, nervous system work, and honest self‑reflection actually work: they interrupt the thought‑emotion‑behavior loop and create space in the pause for a different choice.
If you have ever asked yourself “Who am I really?” after a toxic relationship, childhood trauma, loss, burnout, or major life transition, this conversation will help you start your own excavation and remember your magnificence.
In this episode (timestamps approximate)
00:00 – Why the questions you ask shape your life and identity
02:00 – From trauma to truth: Kristen’s framework of Archaeologist, Artifact, Architect
05:00 – Survival mode, masks, and the theft of identity after trauma
08:40 – Narcissistic abuse, trauma bonds, and realizing “It’s not you”
11:00 – Discovering Dr. Joe Dispenza and learning to hear your true self
15:20 – Excavation exercises and building your personal “jig” for decisions
20:00 – Ignoring your truth, panic attacks, and the cost of living out of alignment
24:00 – Emotional addiction: why your body is hooked on stress chemicals
30:10 – Grief, loss, and realizing you are still chasing your biochemical “fix”
35:30 – Why healing tools work: interrupting the thought–emotion–behavior loop
39:30 – Self‑revelation vs self‑reclamation and designing YOU 2.0
44:00 – Masks, authenticity, and choosing when you adapt on purpose
47:20 – What it really means to be Unbroken
Key topics covered
About our guest – Kristen Crabtree
Kristen Crabtree helps people move from trauma or adaptation to truth by guiding them through an excavation process to uncover their authentic self and then architect a life aligned with that truth. Her work blends real‑life experience, science, metaphysics, and philosophy into practical tools, questions, and exercises so you can remember who you really are and live from that place.
Work with Kristen and download her Emotional Sobriety PDF:
YOU 2.0 session: you2point0.com (Y‑O‑U 2 point 0)
Paramore Paradox Project: paramoreparadox.com
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If you feel stuck, burned out, or like you’ve “checked all the boxes” and still aren’t happy, this conversation is for you. In this powerful episode, Michael Unbroken and guest Amy Natalie dive deep into how to rebuild confidence, break negative thought patterns, and create a life aligned with your true core values.
We talk about:
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro: Becoming the embodied person you’re capable of being
01:43 Why you are hearing this at the right time
03:20 Amy’s story: From vanilla, picture‑perfect life to full‑spectrum living
05:08 Hitting rock bottom, anxiety, and getting sick of your own stories
15:13 Presence, goals, and who you are choosing to be today
15:42 Mindset, limiting beliefs, and negative thought patterns
17:50 Self‑acceptance, shame, and loving your insecure parts
18:27 What embodiment really means and why trauma lives in the body
If you’re navigating grief, mental health challenges, or a “dark night of the soul,” this episode will give you hope, practical tools, and a new lens on success. Listen with an open mind and open heart; one conversation can change everything.
In this episode, Michael Unbroken sits down with kink and sexuality expert Matthew Riven to unpack how BDSM, kink, and conscious sexuality can become powerful tools for healing childhood trauma, religious shame, and sexual guilt. You will learn how consent, boundaries, and agency in the bedroom can help you reclaim your body, rebuild self‑trust, and create safer, more authentic relationships as an adult survivor.
We explore the difference between sex, sexuality, and kink, why your “taboo” desires are often wired to your nervous system, and how bringing them above the table with communication can be deeply healing instead of destructive. Matthew shares how conscious kink, structure, and negotiation give trauma survivors a safe container to be seen, ask for what they want, and slowly release the shame they were taught as kids.
If you grew up with sexual abuse, purity culture, or a home where sex was never talked about, this conversation will help you understand why you struggle with intimacy, trust, and desire – and what to do about it. We talk PTSD, body agency, consent regret, and how to move from people‑pleasing and dissociation into grounded, empowered choice in your relationships and sex life.
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Quit corporate, bet on yourself, and build a life you actually love. In this conversation, Michael Unbroken sits down with Angie Hawkins to break down exactly how she went from full blown anxiety attacks at the thought of quitting her 9–5 to creating a business and life on her own terms.
You will learn:
If you feel stuck in a job you hate, are terrified to take the leap, or keep getting knocked down as an entrepreneur, this episode will give you real talk, real examples, and simple steps to move forward today.
Timestamps:
00:00 Leaving corporate America and facing fear
05:00 Building self belief after anxiety and panic
15:00 Why struggle is guaranteed and success is not
25:00 Failing forward in business and trying again
35:00 How to keep going when you want to quit
Keywords: quit corporate America, leave your 9–5, how to believe in yourself, entrepreneurial mindset, overcoming fear, self belief, failing forward, Michael Unbroken podcast, Angie Hawkins interview, how to start your own business, motivational podcast, mental health and entrepreneurship.
Do you feel like you keep dating the same person in a different body, repeating painful patterns you swore you were done with ? In this raw conversation, I sit down with dating and attachment expert Drea Renee to talk about how childhood trauma, anxious attachment, and modern dating culture collide to shape your love life today. We break down ghosting, hookup culture, co‑regulation, and why you might be dating from your 7‑year‑old self instead of your adult self, and what it actually takes to build a secure, healthy relationship that lasts.
If you grew up in chaos, had a parent leave, or feel “too much” and dysregulated in relationships, this episode will show you that you are not broken and that there is a clear path to healing, accountability, and better love. You will learn practical tools for framing hard conversations, knowing when to walk away, and how to stop blaming everyone else and finally start doing your own work.
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro: Why dating feels so broken today
00:28 Imagining a safe, secure relationship that lasts
01:26 Drea’s story: Dad leaving, early trauma, and unconscious dating
03:28 Michael’s “aha” moment: Realizing “this is a me problem”
42:20 How to stay in your adult self during conflict
42:48 Framing hard conversations without blaming your partner
44:23 What to do when one partner is unwilling to do the work
44:48 When to double down vs hit the eject button on a relationship
In this episode we cover:
If you are ready to stop dating your trauma and start creating secure, healthy love, this conversation is for you.
Every day you have the power to rebuild your life, but sometimes it takes hitting rock bottom, dropping the mask, and telling the truth about who you really are. In this raw and powerful conversation, Michael Unbroken sits down with author and entrepreneur Allie Bloyd to talk about burning your life down to the studs and rebuilding it with radical honesty, faith, and courage.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
We also dive into:
If you’ve ever looked “put together” while secretly falling apart, this episode will give you language, hope, and next steps to begin your own Unbroken journey.
Timestamps (approx):
00:00 – Why real change often requires rock bottom
01:20 – Allie’s “fine” persona and the moment the mask cracked
03:40 – Trauma, self-worth, and pretending everything is okay
05:20 – Success, burnout, and the second dark night of the soul
06:30 – Business, marriage, and realizing you built a life from trauma responses
08:10 – Obsessive drive, entrepreneurship, and self-medication with drugs, alcohol, and sex
Connect with Allie Bloyd:
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In this episode, Michael Unbroken sits down with coach and former accountant Karms Fung, who spent 15 years climbing the corporate ladder, chasing titles, respect, and external validation before realizing that “success without fulfillment is the ultimate failure,” a lesson she took to heart after a Tony Robbins event. You will hear how she went from feeling second best in her family, overworking to prove her worth, moving to Australia, excelling at math and accounting, and then finally admitting, “I don’t want to do this until I’m 65.”
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If you feel stuck in a job you hate, scared to walk away from the salary, title, and identity you have built, this video will give you the mindset shifts, questions, and real stories you need to start moving toward a life that actually feels meaningful.
Unlock the true power of vulnerability—Micah LaCerte shares his harrowing journey through childhood abuse and how healing became his greatest strength. Discover how embracing raw truth can break the cycle of shame and set you free, no matter what trauma you've carried. If you’ve ever felt trapped by secrets or shame, this episode will show you that your story is your superpower.Micah, a former abuse survivor turned advocate and author, reveals the raw, unfiltered steps to healing that nearly destroyed him—and then rebuilt him into a force for change. You’ll learn how childhood trauma manifests in adulthood, how silence can destroy, and the transformative power of sharing your truth. We break down proven frameworks for overcoming shame, forgiving those who hurt us, and reclaiming your life.Key insights include:
This episode isn’t just for survivors—it’s a call to action for anyone tired of living under the weight of secrecy. Micah’s story illustrates that healing isn’t linear, but it’s always possible—and the moment you decide to confront your pain, life begins to change. The courage to tell your story is also the courage to live free.Perfect for men and women facing their own battles with shame, loss, or trauma, or for loved ones supporting someone in this journey. If you’re ready to unlock the power of vulnerability, heal your wounds, and step into your purpose, this episode is your invitation. Because being unbroken isn’t about never breaking—it's about choosing to heal and rise stronger than ever.
Survived childhood trauma? Ready to thrive, find love, and build a life you’re proud of? Join renowned trauma coach Michael Anthony’s free group. https://www.skool.com/think-unbroken-5756/about?ref=deff9f4cffd7469182949355dd1c1a1e
In this engaging conversation, Michael Unbroken and Jarvis Leverson explore the concept of gamifying life to achieve personal success and happiness. They discuss the importance of daily habits, the five-star life framework, and the internal drive necessary for transformation. The dialogue delves into self-sabotage, accountability, and the significance of measuring progress against personal growth rather than external benchmarks. Jarvis shares insights from his journey, emphasizing the need for awareness and intentionality in pursuing a fulfilling life.
Takeaways
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Learn how to heal and overcome childhood trauma, narcissistic abuse, ptsd, cptsd, higher ACE scores, anxiety, depression, and mental health issues and illness. Learn tools that therapists, trauma coaches, mindset leaders, neuroscientists, and researchers use to help people heal and recover from mental health problems. Discover real and practical advice and guidance for how to understand and overcome childhood trauma, abuse, and narc abuse mental trauma. Heal your body and mind, stop limiting beliefs, end self-sabotage, and become the HERO of your own story.
Join our FREE COMMUNITY as a member of the Unbroken Nation: https://www.thinkunbrokenacademy.com/share/AEGok414shubQSzq?utm_source=manual
Download the first three chapters of the Award-Winning Book Think Unbroken: Understanding and Overcoming Childhood Trauma: https://book.thinkunbroken.com/
Join the Think Unbroken Trauma Transformation Course: https://coaching.thinkunbroken.com/
@Michael Unbroken: https://www.instagram.com/michaelunbroken/
Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@michaelunbroken
Connect with Jarvis Leverson:
Website: https://www.themorninghero.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.morninghero/?hl=en
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jayfly22
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/the.morninghero/
Survived childhood trauma? Ready to thrive, find love, and build a life you’re proud of? Join renowned trauma coach Michael Anthony’s free group. https://www.skool.com/think-unbroken-5756/about?ref=deff9f4cffd7469182949355dd1c1a1e
Explore the science and research behind brain health, mental health diagnostics, and personalized treatment approaches with Dr. Steve Rondeau. Discover how brain scans can revolutionize mental health treatment and understanding.
In this episode, Michael speaks with Dr. Steve Rondeau and explores the profound impact of brain patterns, self-talk, and environment on mental health and personal growth. They discuss how understanding your brain’s wiring can lead to transformative life changes, emphasizing practical steps like brain scans, creating supportive ecosystems, and rethinking self-care.
Key Topics:
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Learn how to heal and overcome childhood trauma, narcissistic abuse, ptsd, cptsd, higher ACE scores, anxiety, depression, and mental health issues and illness. Learn tools that therapists, trauma coaches, mindset leaders, neuroscientists, and researchers use to help people heal and recover from mental health problems. Discover real and practical advice and guidance for how to understand and overcome childhood trauma, abuse, and narc abuse mental trauma. Heal your body and mind, stop limiting beliefs, end self-sabotage, and become the HERO of your own story.
Join our FREE COMMUNITY as a member of the Unbroken Nation: https://www.thinkunbrokenacademy.com/share/AEGok414shubQSzq?utm_source=manual
Download the first three chapters of the Award-Winning Book Think Unbroken: Understanding and Overcoming Childhood Trauma: https://book.thinkunbroken.com/
Join the Think Unbroken Trauma Transformation Course: https://coaching.thinkunbroken.com/
@Michael Unbroken: https://www.instagram.com/michaelunbroken/
Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@michaelunbroken
Connect with Steve Rondeau:
Website: https://axoneegsolutions.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100068808602146
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-steven-rondeau-148aa421/
Amazon Link: https://mybook.to/ThinkLikeABrain
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The Unbroken Business Support Podcast is where serious entrepreneurs and business owners come to build real seven‑figure companies, not chase shortcuts or guru nonsense.
Every episode is…
Inside the show, you will hear conversations and tactical breakdowns with some of the most respected operators, strategists, and creators in the game including Tom Bilyeu, Leila Hormozi, Vishen Lakhiani, David Meltzer, Gino Wickman, Amy Porterfield, Jenna Kutcher, Tim Storey, Damon Burton, Anthony Trucks, David Shands, and James Lawrence, alongside solo episodes and BSG trainings focused on the real problems breaking your business. These are not highlight‑reel interviews; they are working sessions that connect story to structure so you can immediately apply what you hear to sales, marketing, leadership, and long‑term scale in your own company.
The podcast is hosted by Michael Anthony, founder of Unbroken Business Support Group and Think Unbroken, an entrepreneur, award‑winning keynote speaker, bestselling author, and podcast host whose work sits at the intersection of business strategy, human performance, and leadership under pressure. Michael brings nearly 20 years of leadership and entrepreneurship to every conversation he built the Six Pillar framework from hard‑earned experience, has personally led hundreds of team members across sales, marketing, and operations, and has helped thousands of leaders convert adversity into strategic advantage. He started this podcast for one reason to help entrepreneurs and business owners tell themselves the truth, take ownership, and understand that they actually have the power to build the business of their dreams and impact the world.
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