"Conflict isn’t chaos to the narcissist—it’s control."
In this revealing episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, we dive deep into the narcissist’s obsession with manufactured conflict. Ever feel like you're walking on eggshells? Narcissists thrive on drama—and it’s no accident.

They don’t want peace—they want power.
From twisting your words to fabricating stories, narcissists use conflict as a tool of emotional abuse and manipulation. We’ll unpack the psychology behind this toxic pattern, explore how it plays out in relationships, and explain why narcissists seem to need chaos to function.

"Every argument has a purpose: to keep you off balance."
Whether you’re dealing with a narcissistic partner, parent, friend, or coworker, this episode will help you recognise the tactics—like gaslighting, blame-shifting, and playing the victim—that keep you stuck in their web.

You’ll also hear real-life examples from my counselling practice, plus strategies to step back, stay calm, and stop feeding the drama.

Because once you understand their game, you can stop playing it.

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