If you've ever wondered why you feel like a catch but it doesn't ever seem to be enough for someone, this is the episode for you. I’ll explore why a little healthy conflict is essential for lasting attraction, how to manage guilt when dating multiple people, and why sticking up for yourself can lead to uncomfortable but necessary outcomes. Let's unpack one of dating's trickiest dilemmas: What's the line between getting what you want and being realistic?

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Chapters:

00:00 Intro

6:18 The Line Between Being Grateful For Someone vs. Settling

10:47 The Role of Polarity (Healthy Challenge) in Relationships

32:28 When People Cut You Off For Standing Up For Yourself

43:01 Dating Multiple People Instead of Putting All Your Eggs in One Basket