In this episode, we delve deeper into narcissism and explore the intricate dynamics of vulnerable and grandiose self-states, focusing on Step 2: Containment and Relating. Central to this discussion is the concept of "reenactment," which highlights the importance of clarifying a person’s experience as it unfolds “in the moment.” This step emphasizes staying present with self and other representations, particularly when navigating projections. Engaging in this process may involve acknowledging fault and expressing empathy for the painful experience of rejection your partner feels, while gently guiding them to reflect on how their distorted projections influence their perception of you.

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