You’ve probably had first dates that you thought went well, with good conversation and no awkward silences. And then when you ask her out again, she lowers the boom: “Hey, I just didn’t feel a spark. But we can be friends.” Or maybe she just ghosts you! It’s so frustrating.
Your problem? Odds are, you’re not “escalating” on dates in the 5 core ways that dial up romantic connection. If you don’t know these Escalation Secrets, you’ll likely struggle on dates and not even know why.

In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett lays out the 5 Escalation Secrets you need on dates to stop hearing, “Let’s be friends” and start heading, “Let’s go out again!” You’re about to get the keys to escape the Friend Zone. Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

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Quotes

"Think of flirting on a date as a dance of connection. It's your job, not hers, to lead that dance." -Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
02:01 - Conscious Escalation: Navigating Romance in Dating
04:36 - Minimal Touch, Uncertain Connection: A Sensual Journey
08:26 - The Seductive Walk: Where Connection Begins
11:29 - Decisions in Dating: Verbal and Physical Escalation
13:55 - Escalating with Intent: Mastering the Five Date Escalators
16:17 - Tactics for Escalating Romance: The Art of Dating
19:58 - Learning from the Past: Evaluating Your Dating Choices
22:35 - Keys to Successful and Respectful Dating Escalation
24:35 - Outro

Produced by Heartcast Media
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