BPD is often misunderstood, reduced to stereotypes of moodiness or drama — but if you've loved someone with unmanaged borderline personality disorder, you know it feels nothing like that. 

In this episode, I break down what it actually looks like to be in a relationship with someone who splits, who swings from adoring you to discarding you in an instant, and how you slowly begin to disappear in the process. 

This isn't about demonizing people with BPD. It's about naming the impact of their unmanaged behavior — and why compassion for their pain does not require you to destroy yourself.

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