The Mental Healness Podcast

Weaponized Vulnerability: Why They Cry to Control You


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In this episode, Lee Hammock exposes a sophisticated manipulation tactic: Weaponized Vulnerability. As a self-aware narcissist, Lee explains why "tears" are often used as a defense mechanism to create F.O.G. (Fear, Obligation, and Guilt), effectively turning the victim into the villain.

Key Takeaways:

  • The Reverse Gaslight: How shifting the focus to their past trauma stops you from holding them accountable today.

  • Insight Without Accountability: Why "knowing" they are toxic doesn't mean they intend to change.

  • The 3 Red Flags: How to tell the difference between real pain and a calculated "tear trap".


Connect with Lee:

  • My Courses: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://courses.mentalhealness.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
  • 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://link.me/mentalhealness⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
    • All My Link: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beacons.page/mentalhealness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
  • Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesss


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