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If you have checked every box, the career, the family, the systems, the health protocols, and you are still waking up exhausted, still carrying the mental load, still the one tracking everything for everyone, this episode is going to name something you have been living but couldn't find the words for.
Chanie Wilschanski is a leadership consultant, author, and the woman behind This Can't Be Normal: What to Do When Success Starts to Feel Like Survival. She joins me to talk about the invisible weight high-achieving women carry, the mental load that never turns off, the over-functioning that quietly extracts our vitality, and why all the right solutions keep running out of road.
We get into why women with high-achieving personalities and super traits end up as the shock absorbers for every relationship and system in their lives. Why burnout in high-performing women isn't about doing too much, it's about never being restored. What it costs us to keep carrying the mental load: first our time, then our invisible labor, then our health, and finally our aliveness itself. How to stop over-functioning without blowing up your relationships or your business. And the rhythms of return, the pre-decided, mood-proof practices that actually restore you from the inside out.
If you are a high-achieving woman who is over-functioning, carrying the mental load, and wondering why success still feels like survival, this one will meet you exactly where you are.
Find Chanie Wilschanski and her book This Can't Be Normal at https://schoolsofexcellence.com/
Connect with Dr. Jordin:
2 spots remain for summer private coaching. Apply HERE
If you want to go deeper on super traits, over-functioning, and building a pleasure-centered relationship and life, the Pleasure-Centered Society on Substack is where that work lives. Join HERE
And if you want to understand the specific dynamic you're inside, the Pleasure Path Assessment is a private one-on-one deep dive. BOOK NOW.
By Dr Jordin Wiggins ND4.5
3939 ratings
If you have checked every box, the career, the family, the systems, the health protocols, and you are still waking up exhausted, still carrying the mental load, still the one tracking everything for everyone, this episode is going to name something you have been living but couldn't find the words for.
Chanie Wilschanski is a leadership consultant, author, and the woman behind This Can't Be Normal: What to Do When Success Starts to Feel Like Survival. She joins me to talk about the invisible weight high-achieving women carry, the mental load that never turns off, the over-functioning that quietly extracts our vitality, and why all the right solutions keep running out of road.
We get into why women with high-achieving personalities and super traits end up as the shock absorbers for every relationship and system in their lives. Why burnout in high-performing women isn't about doing too much, it's about never being restored. What it costs us to keep carrying the mental load: first our time, then our invisible labor, then our health, and finally our aliveness itself. How to stop over-functioning without blowing up your relationships or your business. And the rhythms of return, the pre-decided, mood-proof practices that actually restore you from the inside out.
If you are a high-achieving woman who is over-functioning, carrying the mental load, and wondering why success still feels like survival, this one will meet you exactly where you are.
Find Chanie Wilschanski and her book This Can't Be Normal at https://schoolsofexcellence.com/
Connect with Dr. Jordin:
2 spots remain for summer private coaching. Apply HERE
If you want to go deeper on super traits, over-functioning, and building a pleasure-centered relationship and life, the Pleasure-Centered Society on Substack is where that work lives. Join HERE
And if you want to understand the specific dynamic you're inside, the Pleasure Path Assessment is a private one-on-one deep dive. BOOK NOW.

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