Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman

What’s the Secret to Overcoming Trauma in Love?


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What do you do when your relationship feels stuck in a cycle of disconnection? Do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try, you and your partner just can’t sync up? Perhaps past trauma is creating invisible walls, or the pressures of daily life are slowly pulling you apart. How can you break through and rebuild trust and intimacy when life keeps throwing curveballs?


In this Language of Love session, I’m thrilled to welcome back Stacey and Brian. It’s been about a month since we last checked in with them, and I’m excited to see how things have evolved. There’s a lot to unpack today, and we dive deeper into the underlying issues driving their tension and explore how they can start showing up for each other in more meaningful ways.


Here is what you’ll learn in this episode:

  • Why “disconnected intimacy” is a relationship red flag
  • How small changes build big trust
  • Why aligning on decisions is crucial and how to avoid undermining each other.
  • How financial stress impacts emotional and physical connection—and what to do about it.
  • Communication hacks, conscious loving tips, and the importance of stepping back during heated moments.

  • Remember, healing and connection are journeys best taken with the right tools. Ready to deepen intimacy? Check out my Quantum Sex Course, or explore must-reads like Conscious Loving by Gay and Katie Hendricks and The New Rules of Marriage by Dr. Terrence Real. For trauma recovery, tools like EMDR and the Drama Triangle that I teach about in Quantum Love can be transformative. Have questions or stories? Email me at [email protected], and share this episode—because love is a journey we take together.



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