March 20, 2026

When the Fearful Avoidant Falls OUT of LOVE While in A Relationship...

12 minutes

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If you identify as Fearful Avoidant and you’ve started feeling emotionally distant, numb, or disconnected in your relationship, this video will help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface and what to do before you cut and run or shut down completely.

Fearful Avoidants often fall out of love while still in the relationship, processing the breakup internally long before it ever ends. In this episode, Thais breaks down the most telling subconscious signs this is happening, why they occur, and how healing; not avoidance, can change the outcome.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

Why stopping conflict is often a bigger red flag than arguing

How fantasizing about others points to unmet needs, not necessarily a wrong partner

What emotional numbness around closeness really means for Fearful Avoidants

How focusing only on your partner’s flaws signals deep deactivation

What to do before leaving a relationship so you can walk away with clarity, not regret

Timestamps:

00:00 – When the Fearful Avoidant is Falling Out of Love

01:13 – 1. When You No Longer Engage in Conflict

03:54 – 2. If You Fantasize About People Outside of Your Relationship

07:25 – 3. If You Feel Numb Around Closeness

09:36 – Somatic Attachment Healing Course Promo

09:56 – 4. If You’re Focusing on the Negatives in Your Relationship

11:36 – Final Thoughts

Meet the Host

Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

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