Narcissists often use selective kindness as a calculated tactic to keep you invested in the relationship, but these “nice” moments are usually just a way to manipulate and control. In this episode, we dive deep into why narcissists are nice to you—and it’s rarely out of genuine care. 
It’s important to remember that the percentage of nice times never compensates for the overwhelming bad times. In this episode, we break down how this inconsistency leads to trauma bonding and why you should never measure a relationship by the few good moments.
Learn how to see through these narcissistic tactics, recognize when kindness is just another tool for control, and gain the strength to protect yourself from the cycle of narcissistic manipulation. Whether you’re dealing with a narcissist in a personal or professional setting, understanding this behaviour is crucial to breaking free from their hold.

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