What happens when your mother-in-law acts more like the jealous ex than the proud parent? In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into one of the most emotionally exhausting dynamics a woman can face: navigating life with a narcissistic mother-in-law who sees you as competition—not family.

From constant criticism to controlling behaviour, narcissistic mothers-in-law often believe they hold the number one spot in their son’s heart—and anyone who threatens that position is seen as the enemy. You’ll hear real-life examples of women caught in the crossfire of toxic in-law relationships, including the subtle manipulation, emotional blackmail, and triangulation that turns what should be a joyful family connection into a confusing and painful power struggle.

We explore how narcissistic mothers-in-law undermine parenting decisions, interfere with your relationship, and create chaos under the guise of “just being helpful.” We also talk about the damage it causes when your partner is either completely oblivious to the manipulation—or worse, supports it.

You’ll learn what these dynamics look like, why they happen, and how to spot the signs of covert narcissism within the family system. Whether your partner is still emotionally enmeshed with his mother or has become a passive participant in the dysfunction, this episode unpacks the emotional toll it takes on you as the daughter-in-law.

We also examine the long-term impact on your mental health, your relationship, and your children, especially when boundaries are repeatedly ignored and your voice is dismissed. From power struggles over parenting to passive-aggressive guilt trips and smear campaigns, we break down how this toxic dynamic plays out behind closed doors—and how easy it is to internalise the blame.

If you’ve ever been made to feel like the “other woman” in your own marriage, if you’ve walked on eggshells around family gatherings, or if you’ve questioned your sanity after being emotionally sidelined by a manipulative in-law, this episode is for you.

This raw and validating conversation sheds light on a taboo topic that’s more common than people realise—and offers understanding for anyone trying to survive the emotional battlefield of a narcissistic in law.

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