Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman

When They Are “Checking All The Boxes” but You’re Still Not Sure


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What happens when everything looks good on paper, yet your heart keeps whispering that something’s missing? You love your partner. Nothing’s really wrong. And still, you can’t shake the feeling that maybe you’re settling, or maybe you’re expecting too much.

In this Language of Love session, I respond to an anonymous listener who’s been with their partner for several years. The relationship checks all the boxes, but a nagging sense of absence lingers. Is it a red flag, or just fear keeping them from leaning all the way in?

In this session, we talk through:

  • Why “something missing” can mean very different things, and how to tell which applies to you

  • The hidden danger of making excuses for a partner’s shortcomings

  • How unhealed wounds, depression, or anxiety can disguise themselves as relationship doubts

  • Why the only way to experience real love is to risk heartbreak

    If you’ve ever second-guessed your relationship and wondered whether it was intuition or insecurity talking, this conversation will speak directly to your heart.

    And if this resonates with your own story, I’d love to hear from you. Email me at [email protected], your experience could help others feel less alone.
    Want more tools for navigating love and intimacy? Visit my website and check out my latest book, Sex Magic, for a deeper dive into building authentic, lasting connection.

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