The Thais Gibson Podcast

Why Avoidants MUST Learn to Be Vulnerable to Build a Healthy Relationship


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Why is vulnerability so difficult—but so necessary—in relationships?


Many people, especially those with avoidant attachment styles, struggle to open up and express their emotions. Yet, vulnerability is what transforms infatuation into love, strengthens bonds, and deepens emotional connection. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and co-host Mike DiZio explore why vulnerability is challenging, how to communicate it effectively, and why it’s the key to building lasting, fulfilling relationships.


If you’ve ever struggled with expressing your emotions, setting boundaries, or feeling safe enough to be your true self in relationships, this episode will give you the tools to overcome fear, deepen intimacy, and create authentic connections.


Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro

01:48 - Vulnerability in Childhood (Mike's Story)

05:24 - Vulnerability in Childhood (Thais' Story)

10:26 - 7-Day Free Trial

11:16 - Misconceptions About Vulnerability

17:31 - How to Approach a Dismissive Avoidant with Vulnerability

26:54 - Vulnerability Allows You to Be Loved & Fall in Love

33:10 - Rocket Money

35:02 - When You and a Loved One Have Opposing Views

41:01 - If You're Afraid to Share Vulnerably With Others

52:26 - Conclusion


Meet Your Host:

Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being.


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