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Why Dating Is A Failed Concept
Why is dating broken?
Why are young men flooding back to church?
In this conversation, I sit down with Patrick Coffin: Catholic broadcaster, close-up magician, and host of The Patrick Coffin Show. We go deep on the real reasons relationships are falling apart: and it goes back further than you think.
We cover:
→ Why dating is a failed concept (and what humans actually need)
→ The 3 "divorces" that broke Western civilization
→ How your image of God shapes your attachment style
→ Why empaths and narcissists can't stop finding each other
→ The difference between emotional permanence and emotional impermanence
→ What the Traditional Latin Mass has to do with secure attachment
→ Why "spiritual but not religious" is code for "I don't want to be challenged"
→ The biochemistry of feeling loved (oxytocin, vasopressin, and cortisol)
→ How to repair after conflict: the skill most families lost 120 years ago
Plus: Patrick performs a live magic trick that lands.
This is the intersection of faith, neuroscience, and attachment theory: the stuff that actually changes how you bond.
🔗 RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Patrick Coffin's Podcast: https://patrickcoffin.media
True North Community: https://patrickcoffin.media
📚 WORK WITH ME:
🫂 RELATIONSHIP MASTERY INTENSIVE April 23–26, 2026 | San Diego, California 3 days of real skill-building with people who understand exactly what you're going through. Apply here: https://adamlanesmith.com/retreat/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=retreat
💬 1:1 COACHING Work directly with my team: https://adamlanesmith.com/private-coaching/
📋 FREE ATTACHMENT QUIZ Find out your attachment style in under 5 minutes: https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-assessment/
📬 NEWSLETTER Get weekly insights on attachment patterns: https://adamlanesmith.com/newsletter-signup/
🎙️ ABOUT THIS CHANNEL:
I'm Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist. I've spent 16 years helping people understand how their brain learned to bond: and how to change it. I work with anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment styles to build secure relationships that actually last.
Subscribe for weekly videos on attachment, relationships, and the psychology of connection.
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By Adam Lane Smith & Andrey Korikov
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Why is dating broken?
Why are young men flooding back to church?
In this conversation, I sit down with Patrick Coffin: Catholic broadcaster, close-up magician, and host of The Patrick Coffin Show. We go deep on the real reasons relationships are falling apart: and it goes back further than you think.
We cover:
→ Why dating is a failed concept (and what humans actually need)
→ The 3 "divorces" that broke Western civilization
→ How your image of God shapes your attachment style
→ Why empaths and narcissists can't stop finding each other
→ The difference between emotional permanence and emotional impermanence
→ What the Traditional Latin Mass has to do with secure attachment
→ Why "spiritual but not religious" is code for "I don't want to be challenged"
→ The biochemistry of feeling loved (oxytocin, vasopressin, and cortisol)
→ How to repair after conflict: the skill most families lost 120 years ago
Plus: Patrick performs a live magic trick that lands.
This is the intersection of faith, neuroscience, and attachment theory: the stuff that actually changes how you bond.
🔗 RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Patrick Coffin's Podcast: https://patrickcoffin.media
True North Community: https://patrickcoffin.media
📚 WORK WITH ME:
🫂 RELATIONSHIP MASTERY INTENSIVE April 23–26, 2026 | San Diego, California 3 days of real skill-building with people who understand exactly what you're going through. Apply here: https://adamlanesmith.com/retreat/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=retreat
💬 1:1 COACHING Work directly with my team: https://adamlanesmith.com/private-coaching/
📋 FREE ATTACHMENT QUIZ Find out your attachment style in under 5 minutes: https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-assessment/
📬 NEWSLETTER Get weekly insights on attachment patterns: https://adamlanesmith.com/newsletter-signup/
🎙️ ABOUT THIS CHANNEL:
I'm Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist. I've spent 16 years helping people understand how their brain learned to bond: and how to change it. I work with anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment styles to build secure relationships that actually last.
Subscribe for weekly videos on attachment, relationships, and the psychology of connection.
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