Fake Love and Flying Monkeys

Why do Narcissists Devalue you?


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The Narcissist will destroy all that is good about you because all of those amazing traits and qualities make them feel bad about themselves. Once the narcissist has hooked you in, the devaluation stage must and will begin. They devalue you to punish you for being 'better' than them in any way, and to bring you under their control.

In this episode we unpack....

*   Why does the narcissist devalue you?
*   The strategies they use to devalue you that you don't recognise at the time.
*   What devaluing strategies does the narcissist use? Eg. Isolation, Gaslighting and financial abuse.
*   Is the devaluing stage inevitable?
*   How do you as the victim, fall for their devaluation strategies?
*   How do you recognise the times you are being devalued?

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