Master Your Marriage

Why Empathy Disappears in Marriage—And How to Get It Back


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Struggling with overwhelm, shutdown, or emotional reactivity in your relationship? Our new Window of Tolerance Worksheet helps you identify your triggers, recognize dysregulation, and develop strategies to regain balance so you can show up as your best self in your marriage.

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"Why do we struggle to feel empathy?"

In this conversation, we delve into the complexities of empathy in relationships, particularly marriages. We explore why we may struggle to feel or express empathy toward our partners, the misconceptions that often surround empathy, and practical steps we can take to cultivate it. We emphasize the importance of being fully present, understanding each other’s feelings, and overcoming barriers that stand in the way of empathy. We highlight that empathy is essential for fostering intimacy and connection in our relationships.

Takeaways:

  • Empathy can be difficult to feel towards our partners despite wanting to be supportive.
  • Understanding the difference between empathy and sympathy is crucial for effective communication.
  • Empathy involves both perspective-taking and emotional connection.
  • Misconceptions about empathy can hinder our ability to connect with others.
  • Being present and focusing on the now is essential for practicing empathy.
  • Empathy is not about giving advice or trying to fix problems.
  • Real empathy requires us to resist the impulse to correct or judge.
  • Practicing empathy can strengthen relationships and foster deeper connections.
  • Negative sentiment override can block empathy and understanding in relationships.
  • Rebuilding empathy is a process that requires intentional effort and practice.


Next Steps:

  1. Get the worksheet: https://stan.store/masteryourmarriage/p/window-of-tolerance-emotional-regulation-worksheet
  2. For more practical tools and tips, follow Robert and Sharla on Instagram, and leave a review if this episode resonated with you.

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