WHY MEN SHOULD ATTEND MY TRAININGS — BECAUSE WOMEN ARE INDEED SCARY!

Many men out there follow my writings and podcasts.  They write to me expressing that they are benefiting from my material.  They express desire to deepen their mastery and to learn more and go deeper.  When it comes time to show up for a workshop I’m offering, many of those same men hesitate, stall and disappear.

I can be pretty hard on men when I coach them.  My first inclination tends to be to yell at them for not following through.  But this phenomena of not showing up has been going on for so long that I’ve had the opportunity to talk to many of the men and gain some understanding of what is happening for them underneath the surface.  The more I see and understand, the more I sympathize.

What keeps men from showing up to be trained in sensuality in a class alongside women is FEAR.  It not just one fear, it is a stack of fears.  It is a layer-cake of fears.

And these fears the men are facing are nothing to scoff at.  This is tender stuff.  I will list three main categories of their fears:

1. They fear getting a report card from women that they, the men, have always been mediocre lovers.

2.  They fear getting a direct and live confirmation from women in front of others that the women don’t prefer this particular man.  That the women prefer other men over him.

3.  They fear being publicly humiliated by being publicly evaluated as sexually incompetent and undesirable.

This is a pretty scary list!  I feel like hiding under the covers when I read.

I can’t completely assuage these fears for men.  I know they are real and they are brutal.  

What I can try to do is express some counterpoints to these concerns in this video.  I have the follow 3 counter propositions for you:

1.  LET WOMEN INITIATE YOU!

2.  ENTER THIS HUMILIATION SCENE VOLUNTARILY!

3.  KNOW THAT ANY FAILURE IS NOT FINAL!

Hope to see some of you in class.

Next Course : Austria, August 5-11.

Course Page : https://omrupani.org/bdsm-principles-dom-sub-exploration-course

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