Have you ever met someone you felt an intense emotional and physical connection with at first but then shortly after you date them they slowly disappear or give you crumbs? If your answer is, “Yes! All the time?!” — you might be exhibiting behaviors that attract emotionally unavailable people. On this episode of the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy breaks down five reasons why you could be confusing the chemistry of the emotionally unavailable with true intimacy, and what you can do about it.     EPISODE 163 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Why You Confuse Chemistry Of The Emotionally Unavailable   This episode will show you that you have the power to attract secure, honest relationships if you learn how to open up, emote, and be emotionally available yourself. If you find yourself consistently attracting emotionally or physically unavailable people into your life, this episode will give you the tools to spot someone like that from a mile away and shut it down! Kimmy walks through how you may not be expressing your needs and desires or setting boundaries clearly enough — especially if the relationship you’ve found yourself in is full of excitement and passion. Sometimes, you have to challenge yourself to investigate your own beliefs about what a loving, supportive relationship looks like — and that means going back into your past. This podcast will help you answer questions like: How was love expressed when you were growing up? Have you found confidence and success in your role as a “fixer”? Do you gravitate towards relationships with suspense, spontaneity, and strong passion and think of stable people as boring, or lacking a spark? Listen in to hear how emotionally unavailable people can confuse you by showering you with compliments and affection in superficial ways.    The dating pool does have emotionally unavailable people in it, but there are just as many amazing, emotionally secure people out there waiting to meet you! Once you have the tools to open up, express your boundaries, and let people really feel you on a deep level, you will change who you attract. If you're looking for guidance in helping you identify how you can attract people who are emotionally available, sign up for a complimentary call with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You deserve to have a healthy, secure, honest relationship that brings out the best in you. When you know understand how to become emotionally available yourself, you will attract people who are not afraid of intimacy and you can find peace in that security.   EPISODE 163 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Why You Confuse Chemistry Of The Emotionally Unavailable.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣    ************************************************⁣  The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣    ************************************************⁣  Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣    ************************************************⁣  Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣    ************************************************⁣  This Podcast is available on:⁣  Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣  Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g  And many other podcast sites.    ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter:  https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook:  https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/group