WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

I wrote this tagline once for The Sacred: "Girlfriend vibe meets spiritual depth." I'm going to FULLY deliver on that today.

My sister-friend Joey WhatsApp-called me from Egypt. We were in the philosophical MOOD, jacked on temple light and New Moon-ness. These wisdom nuggets are the highlights.

In this episode:

• Girlfriendship is a spiritual practice
• Energy as currency—and how to build equity
• What activities earn or cost your energy units
• The empath's guide to protecting joy
• The opportunity cost of overthinking
• Why change doesn't need to take time—it needs a decision.

Also: Fat-burning and lush hair. Should I start eating meat again? I'm allergic to lash glue. And I just got this Castor Oil with Rosemary from Living Libations that I like for my eyebrows and hair roots.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

• The Heart Centered Collective. Get the new class—6 Ways To Cleanse Your Energy Field, for just $7.
• Castor Oil from Living Libations
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I've never used ChatGPT. Couldn't tell you how to do it. So, not surprisingly…

I've never used AI for life guidance. And I never will. Because turning to algorithms for soul advice? That's not evolution—it's devolution.

But…asking AI for life advice and personal goal-setting is ACTUALLY TRENDING.

Heavy sigh.

This week, I'm naming what's happening underneath all the dopamine hits.

We've worked too hard to break free from shallow psychotherapists and profit-centric Priestesses to fall for Chat-f*cking-GPT subbing as our next spiritual advisor.

Want real wisdom? Put the phone down. It's less sexy, and the dopamine is modest. But the results of self-referencing and a loving support system lead to your radiant power.

In this episode:

• Why asking AI for spiritual guidance or life advice is a dangerous dependency
• Fawning as emotional manipulation—human and algorithmic
• How AI reflects your hungry ghost back to you (with charm)
• What true, self-sourced consciousness looks like in a world of synthetic wisdom

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

• The Heart Centered Collective. Get the new class—6 Ways To Cleanse Your Energy Field, for just $7.
• 💌 Get the written version of The Sacred every Friday—a personal letter from Danielle, with exclusive photos you won't find anywhere else. You can read, listen, feel—you can heal. Subscribe here.
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Not all of your feelings are yours. Knowing this will help you navigate your entire life with more ease. Feeling other people's feelings—momentarily or ongoingly, but in a very intentional way—can be a form of service. The more conscious we become, the more "sensing" we will be. And please, this is not to be mistaken with being overly sensitive and dysregulated, okay?

I talk about shadow eaters. I talk about empathic normies. I talk about the sensitive folks who need to learn how to NOT carry what they're picking up on. Because there is NO SENSE or SERVICE in letting the suffering of humanity ruin your capacity to function and re-stabilize in joy.

This is the work.

In this episode:

• The day I felt suicidal energy that wasn't mine
• Where some feelings actually come from (hint: not your brain)
• Who the "shadow eaters" are—and why they're rare
• Why Love isn't a feeling (and what it actually is)
• How to stop overidentifying with suffering
• Being empathic doesn't make you more special—it makes you responsible
• Spiritual support is not optional—it's essential

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

• You'll need support to stay resilient in these wild times—join The Heart Centered Collective
• I go deeper into chakras + consciousness in my book, How To Be Loving
• Explore spiritual practices and tools at daniellelaporte.com/shop
• 💌 Get the written version of The Sacred every Friday—a personal letter from Danielle, with exclusive photos you won't find anywhere else. You can read, listen, feel—you can heal. Subscribe here.
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I've been in a pendulum swing of suffering and joy lately—and as ever, I hope what I share is a popcorn trail through the dark for you. Because there's always another side.

This episode is inspired by a poem from D.H. Lawrence that's become a mantra for me: "Are you willing to be made nothing?" The Phoenix only renews when she's burnt to flocculent ash. Immortal bird, anyone?

This is my unfiltered download on what it means to truly rise. I'm talking about sacred surrender, resilience as your true nature, why guilt is a pathway to innocence, and how even a day of crying in bed can be an act of devotion.

Plus, I riff on my philosopher boyfriends (Krishnamurti and Leonard Cohen) and my metaphysical bestie, Manly P. Hall.

This one's personal and poetic—just how I like it.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

• The Rituals Class – A free live class to help you choose—and stick to, better habits. Saturday, March 29 at 9am PT | 12pm ET.
• How To Be Loving – For deeper teachings on Acceptance, Compassion + Soul Qualities
• Gail Larsen's last speaking Immersion.

Are you waiting on better habits to fix your life?

We're going esoterically practical today. I'm talking about the difference between habits and rituals. Habits are from the intellect. Rituals are from the heart. One can burn you out, the other can bless your life.

In Eps 174 of With Love, Danielle, I walk you through a handful of practices that have supported me over the years: a ritual for connecting to your inner child, a list of what you trust (to calm the nervous system), chanting your own name (yep, it's powerful), and looking into your own eyes with loving-kindness.

You'll leave with real things you can try today—and a personal invitation to my free class:

THE RITUALS CLASS

Practices to help you choose—and stick to, better habits.Saturday, March 29 9am PT | 12pm ET daniellelaporte.com/rituals

In this episode:

• The real difference between rituals and habits (and why it matters)
• Why most habit advice leads to burnout, not peace
• How ritual infuses your actions with meaning, energy, and love
• Why discipline can numb the mind (Krishnamurti said it best)
• How to bless your habits with Divine support

Mentioned in this episode:

Join the free class: THE RITUALS CLASS Saturday, March 29 | 9am PT | 12pm ET daniellelaporte.com/rituals

The Heart Centered Membership – Spiritual direction, monthly soul sessions, beautiful community and practices that help you stay steady.

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Hello, Loves…

Today, since the world feels like a roller coaster on fire, consider this a palate cleanser edition.

In this episode:

• Films I've loved about women liberating themselves—from Widow Cliquot to Pamela Anderson in The Last Showgirl
• Multitasking + healing with red light therapy—my go-to for melasma, immunity, and sinus health.
• Manifesting my next home. I have great habitat karma.
• Motherhood's mixed f*cking bag—ugly crying over scissors and Band-Aids as my son preps to move.
• Breathing into your heart—the most direct route to sanity in these wild times.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

Read the full written edition of the episode here—with links to all the movies + things.

Nose Glow appliance from Nadine Artemis' Living Libations

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Loves…

The gratitude is mutual.

You don't have to go to Cairo to have these revelations… but evidently, I had to. Some of these learnings are deeply personal. All of what I'm attempting to translate is beyond words. There are layers I can't describe. This feels like going braless at my art opening. But this is me, and this is my art.

This week, I'm sharing what it was like to stand before the Sphinx, chest pressed to stone, receiving an ancient and unexpected healing.

In this episode:

• What The Sphinx told me about gratitude—it changes everything.
• A French tour guide unknowingly confirmed my prayers at the Temple of Horus.
• Why problems need to be brought to the altar to be solved.
• The answer I received about the heartbreak of the world.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

📷 See exclusive photos of my trip to Egypt in the written version of The Sacred here.

✨ The LIGHTPOURS Egypt Pilgrimage—April 23–May 6. Think: bougie meets spiritual awakening. There are a few spots left. Email [email protected] for the itinerary.

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I've been wondering how we could each collectively wake the f*ck up to the basics of Love. You too?

So, I have a little story about a monk and a sandwich to share. But first, I'm going to unpack the definition of Common Sense and rant for a minute—because humanity's Common Sense tank is running on empty, and our collective shadow is louder than ever.

In this episode:

• What Common Sense really means—and why Common Sense isn't common
• The difference between wisdom and opinion (hint: wisdom includes everyone in the solution)
• Why we're stuck in polarization—and how to move beyond "us vs. them" thinking
• The collective shadow is OURS, not theirs. We all scoop from the same pool.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

🧘 INNER SUN Spring Equinox Meditation. Thursday, March 20 at 7am PT | 10am ET. It's free to join—sign up here.

💌 Get the written version of The Sacred every Friday—a personal letter from Danielle, with exclusive photos you won't find anywhere else. You can read, listen, feel—you can heal. Subscribe here.

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This BEST OF issue of The Sacred made its debut on January 31. Want more Sacred in your inbox? Of course you do. Sign up below—new issues drop every Friday.

What if losing something was actually the doorway to more? More clarity. More freedom. More YOU.

This week, we're talking about how to stay sane in change, why simplicity is a spiritual practice, and how real Vision Building isn't about clinging to one fixed outcome—it's about aligning with the Divine and backing it up with Faith (and an ambitious timeline).

• What a renoviction is—and why it's hitting my spiritual practice
• How to hold both resistance and excitement in change—the beliefs that help me stay sane when life shifts my plans
• What real Vision Building looks like (hint: it's agile, spirit-backed, and way bigger than a vision board)
• The James Baldwin quote that's guiding me through it all

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

✨ The LIGHTPOURS Egypt Pilgrimage—April 23–May 6. Think: bougie meets spiritual awakening. There are a few spots left. Email [email protected] for the itinerary.

🎧 Press play on The Sacred—now streaming weekly on With Love, Danielle.

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Loves…

I'm attempting to be useful in two ways today. BONUS.

1) Let's talk about decision making, how to know when it's right or wrong. 2) And how the ego loves to look good. And thus! how letting go of status concepts can be radically liberating and HEALING.

I once traded a status symbol (sexy Audi, FAST) for a soul symbol (pre-owned VW, FREE). Turns out, less status = more me. More LIFE.

In this episode:

• How the ego masks self-worth struggles with status symbols

• The surprising freedom in less (and why "downgrade to upgrade" is real)

• The three red flags that signal a misaligned decision

• A spiritual approach to right-sizing your life—beyond logic, beyond labels

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

The Sacred, Issue 31: I'm being evicted. Why I'm happy about it.

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