Writing Your Resilience: Building Resilience, Embracing Trauma and Healing Through Writing

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About this episode: What does it actually cost you to keep going when your body has been quietly saying stop for months? In this honest, unfiltered episode, I'm sharing why Writing Your Resilience is taking a break through the end of 2026 even as the podcast has surpassed 52,000 listens and landed in the top 100 for writers and artists on Feedspot. This isn't a burnout story. It's a story about what happens when you ignore your sacral knowing, suppress your inner voice, and unintentionally censor not just your podcast, but your entire creative voice. I talk about grief, mold, exhaustion, shadow work, and the paradigm shift I'm calling leading from being  and I invite you to ask yourself what signal you've been filing under someday. If you're a creative person who is tired, flat, or quietly out of alignment with what your soul is actually calling for, this one is for you.

Episode Highlights

• 00:00 Soul Deep Exhaustion
• 04:44 Announcing The Hiatus
• 05:38 Hard Summer Events
• 16:53 Retreat Shadow Realization
• 22:11 Reclaiming Your Voice
• 27:16 Staying Connected During Break

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Lisa’s Bio: Lisa Cooper Ellison is an award-winning writer, speaker, trauma-informed creativity and empowerment coach, and host of the Writing Your Resilience podcast. Working at the intersection of storytelling, healing, and human design, she blends two decades of clinical expertise, soul-centered practices, including Akashic Records work, guided imagery, and meditation, with deep creative mentorship to help people reauthor their lives from the inside out. Her work as a story alchemist helps people transform the heaviest, most resistant chapters of their lives into clarity, creative power, and sovereign self-expression. Her essays on sibling loss, grief, trauma healing, and the craft of writing have appeared in The New York Times, HuffPost, and The Loss of a Lifetime, among others. Her podcast, Writing Your Resilience, ranks in the top 100 on FeedSpot and has been described by listeners as “smart, rich, inspiring, and chicken soup for the tender soul.”

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About this episode: In this final summer rewind episode, I revisit my highly popular episode with writer, writing instructor, and publisher Jennifer Selig. In it, we discussed how memoir writing can be a powerful tool for healing and self-discovery. Learn how Jennifer’s unique blend of depth psychology and storytelling offers a fresh perspective on the writing process, and find out how her alchemical stages of change and equations for transformation can help you navigate the emotional terrain of your memoir.

Episode Highlights

• 4:30:  Depth Psychology and the Writing Cure
• 12:15:  Understanding Archetypes
• 17:28: The Three Stages of Transformation 
• 25:30 The Four Equations of Transformation 
• 29:00 The Issue of Catharsis 
• 34:00 The Power of Attention

Resources for this Episode: 

• ”Nobody Sees a Flower, Really, It Is So Small”: Extolling the Ethic of Attention” by Jennifer Leigh Selig 
• “A Question of Catharsis” by Debra Gwartney

Jennifer’s Bio: Jennifer Leigh Selig is an LBGTQ+ teacher, international speaker, book publisher, and author whose writing and teaching career spans four decades. She’s the author of dozens of newspaper articles, book reviews, essays, journal articles, short stories, screenplays, and books, including the Nautilus Gold award-winning book Deep Creativity: Seven Ways to Spark Your Creative Spirit, and her latest book, Deep Memoir: An Archetypal Approach to Deepen Your Story and Broaden Its Appeal.

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• Website: www.jenniferleighselig.com
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jennifer.selig.1
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenniferselig/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenniferleighselig/

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About this episode: In this summer rewind episode, I revisit my conversation with yoga therapist and certified death doula Natalie Buster as we grapple with this question: How do you write about really tough, or even traumatic, life events in a way that connects with your audience and the truth, without losing yourself? It’s a question so many writers ask me. Natalie's answers are ones every writer and creative needs to remain open hearted and true to their art and who they are. 

Episode Highlights

• 2:28 What Is a Trauma-Informed Yoga Instructor? 
• 7:18 Opening the Shop Step One: Grounding 
• 12:07 Opening the Shop Step Two: Breathwork
• 16:27 Opening the Shop Step Three: Moving Your Body 
• 21:43 The Importance of Play 
• 25:42 Opening the Shop Step Four: The Power of Affirmations 
• 29:11 What Death Teaches Us About Storytelling 
• 35:42 Natalie’s Best Writing Advice
• 37:10 Closing the Shop

Resources for this Episode: 

• Our Year at ABODE
• Before You Go Bonus Episode: Opening and Closing the Shop 
• Natalie’s Costume
• How to Locate, Reclaim and Strengthen Your Writing Voice
• Donate to Abode

Natalie’s Bio:  Natalie is a yoga therapist, an end-of-life navigator, a certified death doula, a grief reliever, an actor, a podcaster, a writer, and a mentor with a deep desire to help people. As a professional actor in New York City, Natalie first discovered yoga as a way to practice self-care in an incredibly demanding profession. After dealing with personal loss, Natalie found comfort in the world of yoga therapy and has since made it her life's mission to help people find relief and love. Natalie specializes in working with people at the end of life, people experiencing grief, and loss, and performers looking to practice self-care. She is currently serving as the executive director of Abode, an end-of-life home that offers contemplative care for the dying. 

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• Websites: 
  • https://nataliebuster.wixsite.com/groundedactor
  • https://www.nataliebuster.com/yogaforendoflife
  • https://www.nataliebuster.com/
  • https://abodehome.org/
• Instagram: 
  • https://www.instagram.com/nataliebusteryoga/
  • https://www.instagram.com/groundedactorproject/

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About this episode: In this summer rewind episode, I revisit my conversation with Margaret Lee, author of the highly acclaimed memoir Starry Field. In it we explore the impacts of intergenerational trauma on our identity, the challenges of writing a researched memoir, staying motivated over the long haul, and the problem of getting an agent too soon. Since recording this episode, Starry Field has been named a best book of 2024 by the San Francisco Chronicle, Washington Independent Review of Books and Largehearted Boy. It was also the winner of the Discovery Prize for Nonfiction by the Writers’ League of Texas. 

Episode Highlights

• 4:00 Why Explore the Past?
• 7:00 The Impact of Intergenerational Trauma
• 9:00 The Role of Stories in Identity Formation
• 15:00 Maintaining Your Momentum Over the Long Haul
• 20:00 Getting an Agent Too Soon
• 22:00 Structuring a Researched Memoir
• 26:00 The Miracle of the Memoir Process
• 29:00 Turning Yourself into a Character
• 35:00 Understanding Situation versus Story

Resources for this Episode: 

• Starry Field with Margaret Juhae Lee and Grace M. Cho Interview for the Korea Society

Margaret’s Bio: Margaret Juhae Lee is an Oakland-based writer and a former literary editor of The Nation magazine. She has been the recipient of a Bunting Fellowship from Harvard University and a Korean Studies Fellowship from the Korean Foundation. She is also a Tin House alum and has been awarded residencies at the Mesa Refuge, Anderson Center, and Mineral School. In 2020, she was named “Person of the Year” by the Sangcheol Cultural Welfare Foundation in Kongju, South Korea, for her work in honoring her grandfather, Patriot Lee Chul Ha. Her articles, reviews, and interviews have been published in The Nation, Newsday, Elle, ARTnews, The Advocate, The Rumpus and Writer's Digest.

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• Website: www.margaretjuhaelee.com
• Instagram: @mjuhae
• Twitter: @margaretjuhae
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/margaret-juhae-lee-2b95905/

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About this episode: In this summer rewind episode, I revisit my conversation with Jessica Yen, an alumni of my Camp Structure program and now a coach about the challenges she faced while dealing with discouraging feedback from a literary agent. Join us as we explore how agents think, what the market may–or may not–be looking for, and how to regain your power when difficult feedback knocks you down. 

Episode Highlights

•  5:41: The Agent Mindset
• 10:55: Are We Ready for COVID Stories? 
• 13:12: The Demand for Parenting Books
• 15:10: Finding Your Book’s Essential Question
• 24:10: Taking Your Power Back
• 27:15: A New Take on Writer’s Block

Resources for this Episode: 

• Categorically So by Jessica Yen
• Beauty by Jessica Yen (nominated for a Pushcart Prize)
• How I Went From “Big 5 or Die!” to Ecstatic Self-Published Author by Denise Massar
• Ninety-Nine Fire Hoops by Allison Hong-Merrill
• What My Bones Know by Stephanie Foo
• Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
• The True Meaning of Success and The Multiple Paths to Publish Your Book with Courtney Maum
• Recovering from Cults and Religious Trauma Through Writing with Tia Levings
• How to Stop Gaslighting Yourself with Ingrid Clayton

Jessica’s Bio: Jessica Yen is a Chinese American author who explores the intersection of memory, family, culture, language, identity, and history. Her work has been supported by an Oregon Literary Fellowship, Regional Arts and Culture Council, Caldera Arts, Kimmel Harding Nelson Center, and Voices of Our Nations Arts. She is a twice-Pushcart Prize nominated essayist whose work has appeared or is forthcoming in Fourth Genre, The Masters Review, Oregon Humanities, and Best American Travel Writing, among others. She is currently working on a memoir. By day, she writes grants and edits academic manuscripts for non-profits, university departments and scholars, and clinics who seek to address health inequities and works as a wellness coach. You can find her online at www.jessicayen.com.

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About this episode: In this summer rewind episode, I revisit my conversation with the amazing Sue William Silverman about her craft book Acetylene Torch Songs: Writing True Stories to Ignite the Soul. In it, we talk about the power of creative nonfiction, how to use metaphor, masks, and language to harness its power, and how this work can lead to personal growth.

Episode Highlights

• 4:00 Why We Write Creative Nonfiction 
• 8:00 Metaphors in Creative Nonfiction Writing 
• 24:00 Using Masks to Externalize the Narrator and Connect with Their Voice 
• 30:00 Writing, Creativity, and Emotional Truth 
• 36:00 Creative Nonfiction Writing and Personal Growth 
• 42:00 Writing, Memoir, and Essay Collections.
• 48:00 Writing, Resilience, and Self-Expression

Resources for this Episode: 

• “Innocence & Experience: Voice in Creative Nonfiction” by Sue William Silverman
• “INTERVIEW & REVIEW: Sue William Silverman, Author of Acetylene Torch Songs” 
• Crafting Meaning in Flash Nonfiction with Sue William Silverman 
• How to Write a Memoir When You Don’t Remember with Sue William Silverman

Sue’s Bio: Sue William Silverman is an award-winning author of nine works of nonfiction and poetry. Her new book, "Selected Misdemeanors: Essays at the Mercy of the Reader," is a collection of flash essays. Her book on the craft of writing, "Acetylene Torch Songs: Writing True Stories to Ignite the Soul," won the 2024 IPPY Silver Award. Her memoir-in-essays collection, "How to Survive Death and Other Inconveniences," won the gold star in Foreword Reviews INDIE Book of the Year Award. Other works include "Love Sick: One Woman’s Journey through Sexual Addiction," made into a Lifetime TV movie; "Because I Remember Terror, Father, I Remember You," which won the AWP Award; and "The Pat Boone Fan Club: My Life as a White Anglo-Saxon Jew." She’s co-chair of the MFA in Writing program at Vermont College of Fine Arts. Her media appearances include The View, Anderson Cooper-360, and PBS Books.

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• Facebook: @SueWilliamSilverman
• Insta: @suewilliamsilverman

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Join me and editor extraordinaire Lilly Dancyger for this summer rewind episode where we discuss her latest book, First Love, an intimate, electric collection of essays on friendship, identity, and what it means to grow into yourself in community. During our conversation, Lilly shares her sharp insights on the craft of memoir, why she bristles at the idea of writing as catharsis, and how she pushes back against the dead girl trope by keeping her cousin Sabina fully alive on the page. If you’ve ever wondered how to turn memory into art without falling into the trap of polishing your pain, this one’s for you.

Episode Highlights

• 3:36: The Problem of Connecting Memoir with Catharsis
• 10:12: Essays as a Space for Play and Variation
• 13:04: Showing Intimacy on the Page
• 21:12: Zooming In and Zooming Out
• 27:00: Pushing Against the Dead Girl Trope
• 33:44: Strategies for Cleansing Your Creative Palette 

Resources for this Episode: 

• “Canceling My Book Deal Was the Best Career Move I’ve Ever Made” by Lilly Dancyger
• “Why Your Memoir Won’t Sell” by Jane Friedman
• More Than True Crime with Sarah Perry 
• Sign up for Find and Sharpen Your Memoir’s Voice
• Get Your Free Human Design Report 
• Ditch Your Inner Critic Now 

Lilly’s Bio: Lilly Dancyger is the author of First Love: Essays on Friendship, and Negative Space. Her work has been published by The New York Times, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Playboy, and Rolling Stone, among others, and she writes the Substack newsletter The Word Cave. Dancyger lives in New York City, and teaches creative nonfiction in the MFA programs at Columbia University and Randolph College.

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• Website: https://www.lillydancyger.com/
• Substack: https://substack.com/@lillydancyger
• Blue Sky: @lillydancyger.bsky.social
• Instagram: @lillydancyger on instagram

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About this Episode: Have you ever felt like your creativity isn’t enough or that your artistic endeavors are secondary to everything on your to-do list? Have you tried all the strategies only to find yourself struggling with this yet again? Join me and my client, Carolyn Fallert, in this summer rewind episode, as we explore the impact of familial and cultural socializations and how strategies aren’t enough. You need to understand yourself. Get ready to discover the importance of understanding your unique operating system and how it should determine the strategies you use.  

Resources for this Episode: 

• We Need Your Art by Amie McNee
• Carolyn’s Substack
• What are the nine Enneagram types?
• The True Meaning of Success and the Multiple Paths to Publishing Your Book with Courtney Maum
• The Art of Intimacy: Crafting Connections in Memoir and Essay with Lilly Dancyger
• Sign up for Find and Sharpen Your Memoir’s Voice
• Get Your Free Human Design Report 
• Ditch Your Inner Critic Now 

Episode Highlights

• 1:40 The Number One Trick for Getting Unstuck
• 6:40 Protecting Time and Your Creative Energy 
• 7:31 Understanding Your Nature 
• 17:20 Overcoming Your Conditioning
• 22:50 Identifying Your Why

Carolyn’s Bio: Carolyn Fallert is a trauma-informed, feminist self-defense coach who shares everyday practices for moving through fear, standing in our powers, and finding safety within through her substack and in-person self-defense trainings. Her essays have been published in Spank the Carp and Points in Case. Prior to dedicating herself to writing and self-defense, she consulted for Fortune 500 companies and the Gates Foundation. She has an MBA from Harvard Business School and an MPA-ID (Master of Public Administration in International Development) from Harvard Kennedy School. She’s writing a memoir about learning self-defense as a survivor of sexual assault.

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• Instagram: @carolynfallert
• Substack: https://yourpowers.substack.com/

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Have you been told you’re a people pleaser or found yourself saying yes when you meant no, without even thinking about it? Have a friend who struggles to express their feelings or share their preferences? If so, you might have encountered the fawning trauma response. Join me and Ingrid Clayton, author of Fawning the memoir Believing me, for this summer rewind episode where we unpack the misconceptions regarding this trauma response, share our experience strength and hope, and show you how to join the unfawning revolution she’s spearheading with her new book. 

Episode Highlights

• 1:30: The Fawning Trauma Response
• 5:51: The Problem of Co-dependence
• 10:04: Complex Trauma’s Impact on Our Nervous Systems
• 12:50: Fawning’s Influence on Writing 
• 22:29: The Energetic Signature of Your Book
• 28:45: The Unfawning Process
• 43:45: The Role of Tears 

Resources for this Episode: 

• What is the Fawning Trauma Response by Ingrid Clayton 
• How to Stop Gaslighting Yourself with Ingrid Clayton
• Believing Me by Ingrid Clayton
• Get Your Free Human Design Report 
• Ditch Your Inner Critic Now 

Ingrid’s Bio: Ingrid Clayton is a licensed clinical psychologist with a Master’s degree in transpersonal psychology and a Ph.D. in clinical psychology. She has maintained a thriving private practice in Los Angeles for over seventeen years, supporting individuals in healing trauma, reclaiming agency, and reconnecting to their authentic selves. She's the author of Fawning and Believing Me. Her work has been featured in Oprah Daily, The New York Times, Women’s Health, and Forbes, and she has appeared on podcasts and programs including 10% Happier with Dan Harris, Girls Gotta Eat, and NPR’s On Point with Meghna Chakrabarti. Her latest book, Fawning, addresses an often-overlooked piece of the fight-flight-freeze reaction to trauma—explaining what it is, why it happens, and how to help survivors regain their voice and sense of self.

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• Website: https://www.ingridclayton.com/
• Instagram and YouTube: @IngridClaytonPhD
• Get a free copy of her PDF on the fawning response: https://www.ingridclayton.com/fawningtraumaresponse

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How do you define loneliness? How did the pandemic impact the way that you define and experienced it? What does success look like for you? What is one positive association you have with being alone? These are just a few of the questions Athena and I explore in this summer rewind episode that tackles the multiple facets of loneliness, how to decide what is for you and what is for the public, and how to create your own definition of success. 

Episode Highlights

• 4:00 The Problem of Loneliness
• 8:00 Establishing Intimacy Between Reader and Writer 
• 11:00 The Skills of Being Honest
• 16:00 Finding the Vessel for Your Story
• 20:00 Defining Success for Yourself
• 27:00 Digital Loneliness
• 35:49 Intentional Isolation
• 42:00 Loneliness and Hyper-independence

Resources for this Episode: 

• Cherry Picking Pleasure by Athena Dixon (part of her column in Open Secrets Magazine)
• The Incredible Shrinking Woman by Athena Dixon
• Get Your Free Human Design Report 
• Ditch Your Inner Critic Now 

Athena’s Bio: Born and raised in Northeast Ohio, Athena Dixon is an essayist and editor. She is the author of The Loneliness Files (Tin House), The Incredible Shrinking Woman (Split/Lip Press) and No God In This Room (Argus House Press). Her work also appears in The BreakBeat Poets Vol. 2: Black Girl Magic (Haymarket Books) and Getting to the Truth: The Practice and Craft of Creative Nonfiction (Hippocampus Book). She writes the monthly column Radical Pleasure for Open Secrets Magazine. Athena is an alumni of V.O.N.A., Callaloo, and Tin House and has received a prose fellowship from The Martha’s Vineyard Institute of Creative Writing and a Second Book Residency from Tin House. She serves as the Nonfiction Editor for Split/Lip Press and a Consulting Editor for Fourth Genre Magazine.

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• Instagram: @the_muse_paper
• Facebook: @AthenaDevonDixon

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