Most people don’t realize how much energy they spend fighting themselves.

They wake up already tense. Carry that tension through their day. Overanalyze every sensation. Try to control every thought. Then wonder why they feel completely drained by the evening.

It’s not their fault. It’s what they were taught – keep fixing, keep figuring it out, stay ahead of the next flare-up.

But there’s a pattern I see in almost everyone who stays stuck.

It’s subtle. It’s persistent. And it’s easy to mistake for progress.

In this episode, I break down what that pattern looks like, how it shows up in your daily life, and why it makes recovery feel so out of reach even when you're doing everything “right.”

Tune in and get clear on what’s been missing, even with all the work you’ve been putting in.

Key Takeaways:

• Intro (00:00)
• Resistance to emotions creates more anxiety (01:33)
• Misery can feel safe and familiar (02:02)
• Incorrect beliefs about symptoms fuel fear (03:56)
• Even knowledgeable people avoid feeling (06:01)
• Embodied feeling is the path to healing (10:39)
• Letting go of judgment allows energy to return (11:04)

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