We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling

You Will Pick The Wrong Partner — Here’s Why It Doesn’t Matter


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Most people think they have a history of picking the wrong partner. They describe themselves as having a “bad picker.” The problem was in their choice of partner — not in how they co-managed the relationship.


Today, I’m making the argument that we all pick the wrong partner.

You will pick a partner who, over time, will almost certainly feel like the wrong partner, and it actually doesn’t matter. Your relationship can work anyway.


In this episode, you’ll learn why long-term commitments will, ironically, diminish some of the reasons why you wanted to commit in the first place, like:

Excitement about the relationship.

Dating. Like, you’ll go out less <- I hope you prove me wrong here.

Consideration — your partner will be less considerate over time, and you will too.


I rarely say this, but this episode’s a must listen.


Xxoo Darcy


CREDITS

This episode of “We Need To Talk With Dr. Darcy Sterling” was produced by Darcy Sterling, with editorial support from Vicki Vergolina. Editing and sound engineering by Bart Migal. Our theme music is by Trending Music. Special thanks to Amanda Cristiani, Stephanie Sterling and Preston Smith. “We Need To Talk With Dr. Darcy Sterling” is a Sterling Standard Production.


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