Even when you listen to so many tips and parenting strategies available, it can be difficult to find those that actually work with kids with big emotions. And when nothing we try seems to make a difference, it's easy to feel helpless. But it is possible to identify what our children need in order to feel and act better.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why our definition of "what works" doesn't always work!

• What our kids need more than rewards or punishments

• Two things our children must have in order to do the things that we want them to do

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There is almost nothing more upsetting than when a child acts disrespectful. And of course when our kids talk back, roll their eyes at us, or ignore us…we don't always respond effectively. How can we learn to understand children's disrespect so that we can give them the coping skills they need to act more maturely?

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Two simple reasons children are often disrespectful to their parents, even when they know they shouldn't be

• How to respond in the moment to behavior that is rude or dismissive

• How to increase your influence so your child NATURALLY respects you

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You have an idea in your mind of what you "should" be doing as a parent. But how often do you feel like you're falling short of your own expectations? So many of us feel guilty on a regular basis, and it can be exhausting. But there is something you can do to reduce your guilt (and get some energy back!).

In this episode, you'll learn:

• What happens when we let go of parenting guilt

• One question we can ask ourselves to turn our guilt into confidence

• How to create a simple plan that will empower you to parent from your values so you feel less bad about what you've done (or not done)

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Dealing with children's lies can be very upsetting. When we know that they're not telling the truth, we may feel disrespected and helpless and worry about how this behavior will impact our child (and our connection) in the future. How can we stop the lying once and for all – without harming our relationship?

In this episode, you'll learn:

• The real reasons our kids tend to lie

• The strategies that don't stop lying behavior (and why!)

• The mindset shift we need to make in order to influence our kids to stop lying

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Dealing with children’s lies can be very upsetting. When we know that they’re not telling the truth, we may feel disrespected and helpless and worry about how this behavior will impact our child (and our connection) in the future. How can we stop the lying once and for all – without harming our relationship?

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The real reasons our kids tend to lie 

• The strategies that don’t stop lying behavior (and why!)

• The mindset shift we need to make in order to influence our kids to stop lying 

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We love our children with big emotions, but sometimes our love isn't enough to build their confidence, especially when their strong feelings confuse them so much.

As a child I had trouble believing in myself, and I'd like to share my experience with you – and why your children are likely better off than I was!

In this episode, you'll hear:

• What I learned as a child with big emotions

• Two hard-to-hear things our children with big emotions often believe about themselves

• How Long Game Parenting strategies help our kids become more resilient and capable

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We know that consistency is really important for our children with big emotions. But sometimes it feels like we spend all of our time enforcing limits – at the expense of our relationship! How can we teach our kids to do the things they need to do without feeling helpless or like we'll have to nag forever?

In this episode, you'll learn:

• How to outsmart kids' "avoider brain"

• How to find and address the real reasons for resistance

• How to get to the point where you can nag less so you can spend more enjoyable time with your children

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Raising a child with big emotions can feel like a roller coaster some days. One moment they might be yelling at you to go away… and the next moment they're angry that you did what they asked. What do we do when our child does something that seems illogical and nothing we do is helping?

In this episode, you'll learn:

• What's underneath kids' seemingly-illogical behavior

• How to understand what's going on inside our kids before addressing their (outer) behavior

• How to make a plan for handling your child's big -- and sometimes illogical -- reactions in the future. (And it's easier than you think!)

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If you have a child who tends to have big emotions or reactions, you've probably tried many different things to reduce the drama in that moment. But you may not have found much success, so you're dealing with the drama over and over (or you're walking on eggshells to prevent their big reaction!).

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why it's so hard to shift things in the moment once a child is reactive

• What to focus on as your child is having a big emotion so that the situation goes more smoothly

• Two simple ideas to regulate ourselves when our kids are melting down

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Every day, I hear that children with big emotions are struggling -- not just with their emotions, but with their self-esteem. They don't understand or like themselves very much. 

Every day, I hear that parents who are raising children with big emotions are struggling -- wanting to support their kids and foster self-esteem, but feeling helpless. They know they have to set limits and allow kids to be uncomfortable, but these things lead to big reactions and emotions ...and they don't know how to manage these situations without making things worse.

I created a program to solve these struggles -- to foster both resilience and confidence in your children...and honestly, in you as well! Not only will there will be more peace when you're setting limits or when things don't go the way your child expected... but there will be more peace as you realize your child believes in and trusts themselves to handle challenges they will inevitably face in life.

In this episode, I'm giving access to a second part of one of the introductory lessons in that program. Do listen to the first part before this one! 

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