I break down why self-worth isn’t a motivation problem and why trying to “think” your way into confidence rarely works. I explain how your identity is built from predictable behavioral patterns and how your nervous system resists change that feels unfamiliar or threatening. We dive into the biology behind self-worth, including dopamine, serotonin, and norepinephrine, and how they shape drive, discipline, and resilience. Finally, I lay out practical steps you can use to rebuild self-worth through action, repetition, and new patterns.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 - Why Self-Worth Isn’t a Motivation Problem

01:07 - Identity as Predictable Patterns

02:37 - The Rider and the Elephant

03:56 - Why the Brain Rejects Change

05:16 - Self-Worth as a Felt Experience

06:59 - Dopamine and Direction

07:12 - Serotonin and Self-Control

08:21 - Norepinephrine and Resilience

09:28 - Why Change Feels Like Death

11:07 - Practical Steps to Rebuild Self-Worth

14:56 - Self-Worth Is Built Through Action

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