Emotional Badass

Your Social Media Algorithm is Harming your Nervous System


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Rage bait pulls your strings and your nervous system pays the price. Social media algorithms thrive on making you angry, fearful, and activated because those emotions keep you scrolling longer, but most people can't spot when they're being manipulated. The internet runs on manufactured outrage that tricks your brain into thinking extreme opinions are everywhere when they're actually held by tiny fractions of people. Your caveman survival instincts make you hyper-focus on threats and problems instead of solutions, which is exactly what content creators exploit for engagement. Dead internet theory reveals most online traffic isn't even human anymore, it's bot farms flooding comments to sway opinions and create artificial division. Learning your personal "tells" when rage bait hooks you, like forming an angry response or that frustrated sigh, gives you the pause needed to respond from wisdom instead of activated emotions. Time boxing your apps, curating ruthlessly by blocking anything that activates you, and the 48-hour rule help protect your nervous system from being puppet-mastered by algorithms designed to keep you in fight-or-flight mode.

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00:00 How social media algorithms manipulate your emotions

00:55 What is rage bait and why it works

03:15 Why content creators use fear-based engagement tactics

06:40 How to recognize when you're being rage baited

09:55 The psychology behind doom scrolling and hypervigilance

12:10 Why being informed online actually manipulates you

17:00 How fear makes you seek more fearful content

18:40 Stoic perspective on staying informed versus powerless

20:50 Why information addiction feels like a drug hit

22:50 The parasocial outrage cycle explained for HSPs

25:10 How extreme opinions appear more popular online

27:45 Dead internet theory and bot farm manipulation

30:35 Recognizing bot farms in your own content

32:20 How to protect your nervous system online

34:20 Time boxing apps to maintain digital boundaries

35:20 Curating ruthlessly by blocking rage inducing content

36:45 The 48 hour rule for manufactured outrage

38:20 Physical boundaries to stop mindless phone checking

40:30 Replacing scrolling with healthier activities instead

41:35 Dear Internet relationship advice loyalty test drama

47:35 George Orwell's 1984 book recommendation

51:05 Finding beauty in your plan B life


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