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Narcissists don’t choose you by accident.
In this episode of Beyond Words, we unpack the painful truth about narcissistic relationships—why authentic, kind, deeply feeling people are often targeted, how narcissists isolate you from your support systems, and why becoming their sole source of validation is one of the most dangerous dynamics you can be pulled into.
We explore how narcissists:

Chip away at your identity until others begin to see you as the “bad guy”
Isolate you from friends, family, and anyone who reminds you of who you really are
Project their inner emptiness onto you and punish you for having what they lack
Confuse intensity with intimacy to trauma-bond you faster
Break you down only to offer crumbs and call it love

This episode also addresses the deeper question so many people ask:
“Why do I keep attracting narcissists?”
The answer has nothing to do with weakness—and everything to do with your gifts, your empathy, and what you were taught about love.
If you’ve ever felt drained, diminished, isolated, or unrecognizable to yourself after loving someone—this episode is for you.
You were never meant to earn love.
You were never meant to be broken to be chosen.