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Grief doesn’t just show up when someone dies. It shows up after a breakup, a friendship that faded, going no contact with family, or a dream that didn’t work out. And yet so many of us judge ourselves for still feeling it.

In this episode, we’re talking honestly about what grief actually looks like, why it isn’t linear, why going back to the person who hurt you only delays your healing, and why your body holds onto pain even when your mind has “moved on.”

We also get into the inner child work that nobody warns you about; the part where you realize there’s a younger version of you still driving the car, still trying to earn love the way she learned to as a kid. And what it looks like to finally go back to her and say, “You can trust me.”

If you’ve been hard on yourself for not being over something yet, this one’s for you.