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This week our listener explains that no matter the situation or her part in it, she always feels like the problem. She describes her husband as a good man with a warm heart, but struggles to communicate with him in a way that helps him understand her needs. She asks, is it simply different love languages, or something else? 

Content warning: mention of suicide attempt

Listen to Katie and Helen look at this difficult situation from all angles and offer their insight into what's going on.

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