How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear

135. When Your Kids Don't Want to Go To the Coparent's House (Divorce Tips)


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In this episode of How Not To Suck at Divorce, we are talking about what so many divorced parents struggle with—kids who resist going to the other parent’s house. We talk about why this happens and offer actionable tips for managing these tough transitions. It’s completely normal for kids to feel conflicted, and in this episode, we break it down and share ways to make those transitions smoother.

We dig into the "EASE" acronym (you'll have to hit play to find out what this is if you don't know) to give you a simple framework for communicating with your child during these moments. We also talk about why setting boundaries is key and how to do it in a way that doesn’t make your child feel torn between parents.

In this episode, you'll learn:

  • How to show empathy for your child's feelings
  • The importance of setting boundaries and maintaining a calm demeanor during difficult transitions
  • How to document issues related to child transitions, especially if they become an ongoing concern
  • How to communicate clearly with your co-parent, and when it’s necessary to seek legal advice if the issues persist

No doubt, this sucks. But you got this, and we got you!

Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course

Our Family Wizard is another fantasitc resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see how we work closely with them to support our listeners! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck

Friends, slide into our dms, we love love love hearing from you. We are always here to listen and help in any way we can. You've got this and we've got you.

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