October 24, 2025

146. Big Sister Dating Advice + Dating Q&A with Tisia Saffold (fall flashback!)

56 minutes

On this episode of Flirtations, we're joined by dating coach and entrepreneur Tisia Saffold who is going to spill the dating tea with us and share all the big sister dating advice you wish you knew, but maybe haven't heard before ... until now!

Here's what you can expect from this episode:

Why you can’t date potential (and the mindset shift you need right now if you are)

How to choose yourself vs. waiting to be “chosen” in dating

How to date with detachment, manage your emotions and anxiety, and be less reactive

What about asking "what are we," early on, is this a good idea?

How can you know if you're being lead on?

What is cheap communication currency? (and why watching your stories doesn’t mean anything)

What is the uno reverse card in dating? And how can you use it to gain your power back?

You're dating someone and they say they need space, what to do you in this situation?

Can a friends with benefits/casual physical connection become more?

A message from Tisia for anyone dealing with heartbreak

and MORE!

What are you waiting for, let's goooo!!

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About our guest: Meet Tisia X.V. Saffold! Pronounced "Ta-see-a" and named from her late Mother's birth story of wanting "to see her" after long hours in labor, Tisia was born and raised in Chicago and relocated to the DMV area 10 years ago.

Tisia is Founder & CEO of a Tech Startup-Cleare: a compliance software for the childcare industry. In addition to her thriving Startup, Tisia is a beauty and fragrance influencer who has reached over 100M social media accounts, going viral for her unique perspective on dating and relationships. After auditioning as a single in the DMV, Tisia was casted on OWN Networks "Ready to Love" Season 5.

Stream the Dear Tisia podcast and subscribe to Dear Tisia on YouTube!

You can follow Tisia on Instagram and join the Secret Girls Chat + check out coaching and other offers here.

About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!

As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.

Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.

His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal.

You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

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