Better by far you should forget and smile than you should remember and be sad. 过去的就让它过去了，与其伤心与耿耿于怀不如一笑而过。

What was an unexpected obstacle?  回顧過去的一年，什麼是你沒有預料到的阻礙？

Philip:

What was an unexpected obstacle?Money. ? No. This year I had a lot of unexpected obstacles. A lot of them, I think the easy answer would be losing my job, but I think this is too easy. So I think that my biggest unexpected obstacle was to hit the road with a motorbike from LA to Columbia. This was a very dumb, stupid, and genius idea at the same time. But , a very big obstacle that gives me a very, very big life lesson. As a fellow traveler, the biggest lesson I've learned was with this motorbike to me in the toughest way too. 

什么是我没有预料到的挫折呢？钱吗？不是。今年我有很多没有预料到的阻碍，有很多，最简单的答案会是丢掉我的工作，但我想这个太简单了。所以我想我最大的没有预料的挫折就会是从洛杉矶骑机车从洛杉矶到哥伦比亚，这是非常蠢、笨，又同时非常天才的主意。给我非常多的生活教训。同样身为一个旅行者，我得到最大的教训也是伴随和这辆摩托车一起。

Lily:

It was definitely when my dad passed away. I was saddened by this experience. As I am an only child and lost both of my parents, there were several times that I felt extremely alone in my life this year.  绝对是当我爸爸过世的时候，我为整个经验感觉非常的伤心。因为我是唯一的小孩，又失去了我的双亲，所以今年有很多时候我感觉到非常的寂寞。

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