Some parents of estranged adult children beat themselves up for parenting "mistakes" they couldn't possibly have avoided. Others blame their children for being difficult, ungrateful or too sensitive.

What's missing from these simplistic assignments of blame for estrangement? Context.

According to Tina, context is very often overlooked to the detriment of both parents and children. In this episode, she gives three specific examples of context that many parents fail to fully appreciate.

You may be inspired to examine the context of your own situation as you listen, and to consider its impact on feelings and behavior. Doing so can help you find peace and stop blaming yourself.

For much more on how to understand estrangement by adult children and what parents can do about it, read Tina's book, Reconnecting With Your Estranged Adult Child.

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