Dating Intentionally

164. Dating Standards: Are You Too Picky or Not Picky Enough?

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In this episode, we're getting into what standards in dating are (and what they're not) and how to tell if your standards are too high or too low. I get into the dangers of each and how to adjust your standards no matter which category you fall into. Are your standards holding you back? Hint: Too-high standards are a form of self-sabotage, and too-low standards are a form of self-abandonment.


Examples of dating standards:


  • I date people who have the time to see me in person within days of matching or first starting to talk.
  • I continue to date people who are consistent in their communication
  • I sleep with someone when I feel confident there’s alignment in what kind of relationship we’re both looking for 
  • I date people who have the ability to share times that work for them for dates, make plans with me and follow through 
  • I continue seeing people who I’m attracted to by the third date



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