今日格言

Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. —Laozi, Tao Te Ching 知人者智，自知者明。—《道德经》

Day 1 自我察觉挑战

How do I respond when I don't get what I want?

如果我没有得到我想要的我是怎么回应？

When I don't get what I want, I usually feel a bit disappointed at first. However, I try to remain calm and find different ways to pursue what I want. For instance, during a recent trip to Bali, my companion's initial choice of accommodation wasn't what I preferred. Initially, I felt a bit unsure, but after calming down, I explained to my companion from a different perspective why my choice would be beneficial for both of us. We then made a decision that took everyone's situation into account. Often, by staying composed and discussing it this way, I can achieve what I want.

当我没有得到我想要的，一开始我通常会有一点失落，不过我也会用其他方式努力再争取一次自己想要的。例如，在为最近的峇里岛旅行做住宿决定时，我同伴一开始的选择不是我想要的，起初我感觉有点不是很确信，冷静下来后，我会再用其他观点和同伴解释为什么我的选择会对我们都好，然后再综合大家的情况决定，然而通常透过保持冷静还有用这样的方式讨论，我能得到我想要的。

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