The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

#170 - The 'Not All Men' Defense: How Misguided Beliefs Undermine Women's Power


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The moment you say, “I’m exhausted,” they say, “but men feel pressure too.”

The moment you name abuse, they say, “not all men.”

The moment you ask for more, they say, “you’re being too much.”

This is not compassion. It’s manipulation. 

In this searing episode, Dr. Jordin exposes the subtle and sinister ways women are silenced in the name of "balance"—especially in spiritual and coaching spaces that should know better. She calls out the weaponized softness, the faux neutrality, and the gaslighting dressed up as emotional intelligence.

Because when women are talking about femicide, sexual trauma, and generations of unpaid labor—and someone derails that conversation to center men’s pain? That’s not a dialogue. That’s erasure.

And if you’ve ever walked away from those conversations feeling like your rage made you the problem, this episode is going to feel like coming home.

What we’re getting into:

  • The real reason why “men struggle too” is a silencing tactic, not solidarity
  • How high-achieving women are groomed to over-empathize and under-advocate
  • What no one wants to admit about the power imbalance in your relationship

This episode is a reclamation of:🩷Your voice.🩷Your anger.🩷Your pleasure.🩷Your unapologetic womanhood.

No more bypassing. No more guilt. Just the raw, inconvenient truth—and the support to finally do something with it.

If this hits you in the gut, trust it. Forward it to the woman who’s biting her tongue to keep the peace. Share it. And tell the truth—we're not doing silence anymore.

Ever thought, “I don’t even know where to start to fix this"?

I want you to listen to my private podcast series, The Pleasure Path. A raw, unfiltered series to help you uncover what’s holding you back from the intimacy, connection, and passion you crave.

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