You’re almost done… which is exactly when smart people make expensive mistakes. In this punchy, practical episode, Andrea and Morgan tackle “divorce senioritis”, that end-of-process urge to rush, stop reading, or pick last-minute fights, and lay out the three biggest mistakes people make in the final stretch of divorce (plus how to avoid them without losing your mind or your money).

✅ What You’ll Learn (Skimmable Takeaways)

1.Don’t glaze over “small” document edits

• Tiny word shifts like “may / shall / will” can flip legal meaning.
• Action: Print the latest draft, run a Word Compare, read line-by-line for one quiet hour, and send your written questions to your attorney.
• Ask explicitly: “Do these changes affect any earlier documents (e.g., parenting or financial agreements)?”

2.Stop the 11th-hour nickel-and-diming

• Adding minor demands late (or “saving money” by not calling your lawyer) can drag negotiations and raise fees.
• Action: Bullet the 5–8 items bugging you; ask your lawyer:
• “Which of these have a realistic chance of success and are worth pushing to get us across the finish line?”
• Big picture > petty wins.

3.Prepare for the mixed emotions after finalization

• Relief, sadness, anticlimax—it’s normal to feel the opposite of what you expected.
• Action: Don’t over-schedule a celebration that day. Give yourself space to process, rest, and recalibrate.

🕒 Suggested Chapter Markers

• 00:00 Senioritis is real: why the finish line is risky
• 05:24 The urge to “just sign it” (and how that backfires)
• 10:14 Compare feature, “may/shall/will,” and cross-document impacts
• 16:40 Nickel-and-diming at the 11th hour (and how to reframe control)
• 23:39 Read like a businessperson, not a broken heart
• 25:39 The post-divorce emotional curve (why it’s anticlimactic)
• 28:38 Don’t plan a blowout the day it finalizes—plan space
• 33:12 Mini-game: Marry or Divorce? (PG-13 edition)

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