The Sabrina Zohar Show

192: How To Let Someone In Without Losing Yourself | In The Trenches


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Dating with an open heart sounds beautiful until your nervous system has other plans. In this solo In The Trenches audience Q&A episode, Sabrina answers your most raw questions about how to let someone in without losing yourself, how to date after grief, and what it actually looks like to stay present when fear or anxiety is running the show.

From navigating new love after loss to the hard truth about anxious attachment and self-accountability, this episode covers the real work of building a healthy relationship: nervous system regulation, emotional ownership, and learning the difference between communicating and controlling.

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    Chapters

    00:00 Dating Without Losing Yourself

    03:06 Dating After Grief and Loss

    05:02 How to Make Space for Grief While Dating

    07:51 When and How to Share Your Grief

    09:42 Dating with Courage After Hard Times

    11:28 What Is Sapiosexuality in Dating

    19:30 Nervous System and Emotional Intimacy

    24:30 Anxious Attachment and Gaslighting

    27:06 Codependency and Emotional Regulation

    29:42 Anxious Attachment and Accountability


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