The Pleasure Principles with Dr Jordin Wiggins

#192 Why Smart Women Get Stuck in Extractive Relationships Instead of Pleasure-Centered Ones


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Most high-achieving women don't even realize they are living in an extractive relationship. You give and give in your relationship, in your career, and at home, and wonder why you feel exhausted, unseen, untouched, and unfulfilled.

You blame your hormones, your libido, your partner's attachment style, or your parents. You go to therapy, plan date nights, and try lingerie, but none of it works because the real issue isn't communication; it is extraction and power dynamics.

The invisible dynamics are silently draining your health, your desire, and your power. Super traits like loyalty, empathy, forgiveness, and brilliance make you a high performer in your career, but destroy intimacy when they go unchecked.

Sex becomes transactional; you carry all the emotional labor, and your body starts shutting down to conserve energy.

An extractive relationship feels like survival, resentment, and going through the motions. A pleasure-centered relationship feels mutual, alive, and sustaining. The pleasure path is the reset that helps rebuild your nervous system, unlearn survival strategies, and reclaim your right to be fully met.

You don't need to leave to start healing, but you do need a new map. Claim your spot inside Relationship 2.0 and start building the pleasure-centered relationship you deserve.

Join us in the Pleasure Principles™ Group Program with Dr. Jordin Wiggins ND HERE Let's start rebuilding Safety, Desire & Intimacy. BEGINS OCTOBER 1ST, 2025

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