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Episode Show Notes:

Most men trying to quit porn are taught to fight lust, distract themselves, suppress urges, or “channel sexual energy” somewhere else. And for a while, those strategies might seem to work — until they don’t.

In this episode, I break down why many traditional approaches to porn addiction recovery actually keep men stuck, and what it really takes to develop mastery over lust without repression, panic, or constant willpower.

You’ll hear me unpack the three categories of urges — coping urges, habit-based urges, and biological urges — and why confusing them leads to relapse, frustration, and exhaustion in porn recovery. I also explain the critical difference between sexual arousal and lust, and why treating normal arousal like a moral failure fuels compulsive pornography use.

From there, I introduce a practical, repeatable framework for handling biological porn urges in real time — without distraction, suppression, or fantasy. This approach helps men stay present in their bodies, interrupt escalation, and experience sexual desire without turning to pornography.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why fighting lust often makes porn addiction worse

The difference between sexual arousal and lust (and why it matters for quitting porn)

How to identify whether an urge is emotional, habitual, or biological

Why distraction and suppression fail in porn addiction recovery

A step-by-step method for staying grounded when porn urges hit

How to build long-term freedom from pornography without white-knuckling

This episode is for men who want more than short-term control — men who want to overcome porn addiction, stop cycling through urges and relapse, and build a calm, integrated relationship with their sexuality.

If you’re searching for real help with:

this episode will give you clarity, language, and a framework you can actually use.